"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Suave Dave's log of progress.

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Gunwitch's Advice On Being With Equals

I've realised that in the past I made a big mistake. I used to be a tutor and have to teach English to all these HBs. But the problem was there simply wasn't an equality of attraction. Gunwitch points out that a, say, 7 (looks) with a 9 (looks) will be outmatched and therefore feel really sh*tty all the time because the attraction is at a different level.

I was reminded of this today when I met a chick (from before). She pretty and wasn't receptive to KINO at all. However, I've decided to use her for social proof/as a pivot, all the while practicing SS AND learning a big of Japanese. Who knows what will happen here........
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Final Report! Club Outting: Wing Search

This is my last report, I don't know how much good it has done anyone, but at least it gave me a way to measure my progress viz. last month's results and to keep track of which chicks I have approached; anyway I feel like I'm just talking with myself with these notes so they are better, perhaps, left offline.

(B) Club Outting! I had a brief nap before I went out and waking up I had a dream/vision of the word "Wingman" on my computer screen. I decided, therefore tonight to look for a wingman and boy did this help with last night's problem viz. concern over other Alpha Males! It's licked. Now I go to a club and just talk to anyone, and try to find guys to do Mr. Smooth style (this is my friend, he likes you) to chicks. Perfect.

Total Cost: 10$
Total Approaches: 3

I also tried a technique, "Am I pretty enough for you to make love with me tonight?" I think I'll use that more next time, each time I get eye contact/it's semi-appropriate. Other sh*t too, but that's about it.

Anyway, good luck guys. I'll still post around but I'm not going leave all these small details any longer........................ get out there and approach!!!!! Remember the progress this AFC has made and let it be a lesson-- anyone can change, including YOU!
 

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I like logs like these. You get some tips, you see it all worked out.

I should do one myself, but what it would say is, went to work, went to school, talked to gf.

So until something new comes up, I don't plan on doing one!

I do want to do DJ boot camp soon, and I am leaving my job soon to do an internship in another field, so some cool days will be on the horizon!
 

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Bump.

Can we send this to the archive? Great to see results of persistent approaches everywhere and anywhere.
 
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