suavedave
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Ok fastseduction.com/discussion is not posting my messages properly. I'll write this here. Any comments appreciated.
Here's a place to put all the **** I want so that I can post lay reports in the other areas.
Yesterday:
I figured this would be better! I had such success with 18 approaches the day before that yesterday was a bit of a disappointment.
But, as one 'master' put it:
'yah its very true, the only thing i find hard is keeping it it, yet other days for some reason i cant be bothered, andconsistent. some days i can talk to anyone anywhere and really enjoy it takes a real effort."
Anyway, I did manage to do some approaches. The first one was during work hours. I couldn't get into the office for a while so i walked around. I spotted a chick while I was in a building and saw her walking. I know that it's easier to approach when the chick is stopped so I watched her to see where she would go. She eventually comes into the place and I pretend to open a door to a theater. I ask her which way to go and again, she is super receptive. She is really willing to talk and we make our way to the theater. We fluff and I try to (take advice!) and go for the # close without asking her for it in an indirect way. She has a boyfriend and lives across the water. So she declines. I ask her for eMail and she declines saying she isnt here long enough. NEXT
In malls. I approach (yes getting better) at koreans. I go up to one and ask about shirt sizes... pretty receptive but hard to transition to a real convo.
In a food mart, grab a map as a prob and ask for directions. etc, but again hard to transition. another one, this time on the street holding a map, but no transition. After a while started in the library again and went up to a chinese girl. The problem here was this was my first cold approach for some time, and as formhandle mention its important to get warmed up.
Unfortunately i just didnt seem to get warmed up, despite a number of approaches. Finally this chick just says, "Oh ask a librarian [your question] and I say slightly rudely, "Oh, thaaaaank you".
Did some more cruising but no more approaches for a while.
I met JGIRLEnglishstudent from 8 to 10.
Ok, well it turns out that she was not so pissed off afterall. I met her today and got much more kino going, but failed to get a kiss out of her. I had a great chance--
She told me about this japanese drinking game where you, our case, flip a coin. one person is the king and the other is the slave. I won, so told her to hold my hand. I won again, and stalled! I should have said, "kiss me,"...... but Oh well,
At least this is going on now, and I will meet her at a pub next time.... so time to try some more tactics. She's a bit harder to get close to than some others I have known, but I figure there's no need to rush.
I end the date at 10 and take off with the idea to do more PUing. So i start again at 11 with the idea that I'll have an hour and half to do approaches.
I checked out the venues I used last time... one girl on the bus I used the cell phone opener but, again, as with the chinese girl there was a bit of tension and lack of ease from low approaches that day.
Finally, approached a twoset in a supermarket. they were smelling something so i asked how it smells. they were super responsive and i started chatting. turns out they are from Thailand!! ****, my first tai approaches. anyway, turns out one manages a restaurant and the other one cooks. they tell me where it is but it seems like a ploy to get business. I say, "Oh great for the information, sounds like a free dinner!" They leave.... ha ha! Anyway, there just did not seem to be any possibilities, or, perhaps I was missing them. Anyway, I decided, "what will be will be" and headed back.
With my LTR(?) she called me today. This might be posted elsewhere but, to say the least it's a bit of a confusing situation and I dont know if i shold end it, not, etc... but times moving and i need to make a choice. anyway she called and asked if i wanted to see a movie. i turned her down and she was a bit pissed off. I was a little defensive because, perhaps there is a bit of fear in me -- what If I lose her entirely, how will my confidence be? How long will it take to improve, etc.
But, instead Im going to Taichi where I have a hunch I've got a chance with one of the chicks there.... I use dreams a lot to make decisions and had the notion that she would be a potential lay.... so we will see what happens tonight.
Also tonight Im supposed to go to a bar with my boss (call him Mr. Professional.) I did some research on some places that aren't going to totally bust my wallet to have a few pints, so we'll see what happens there. He can't be a wing since he's got a GF, but its a good learning experience because he's a prime example of an Alpha Male, and he works well with chicks.
In addition, there are the fireworks tonight. This is a great opportunity because tons of people are in one place at one time. The downside is that I have yet to improve (or even work on) approaching groups... oh well, here's my chance. Plus, this year I'm not going with my LTR, so that should help move things along (David shade-- i think it would be hard to convince her to do 3somes!!!)
Ok! More to come.........
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Topic: Suave Dave‘s thread (2 of 3), Read 88 times
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From: dawei968 [email protected]
Date: Thursday, July 31, 2003 05:02 PM
Outing report: Fireworks
I went out after meditation and taichi to the fireworks. I knew this would be a good venue to practice group approaches and that I would have lots of chances.
(1) 2 Jgirls -- no response.
(2) another 2 set -- little response
(3) got @close in supermarket
(4) approached 3 set -- little response. Was a street PU so more difficult
(5) 2 set of whites -- good response. Thought of something great afterwards.
(6) India(n) girls-- interesting response : "You look tight" one told me. Ok, need to work on looking less tight.
(7) @close on a 2set on transit. Possibility here unknown.
(8) One chick-- had response but lots it.
Techniques: I like the idea of an abcdenary -- start with a letter of the alphabet and go from there. This keeps the convo going.
-Social proof: Approach chicks, whether I'm interested or not so other chicks see me with them. Related to maniac's 2000/12 post about a guy who is always seen entering or leaving a place with a chick. When I was talking to chick *(2) below I did notice the chicks checking us/me out.
-GM Style: This is hilarious. I used it on (8). I had started off saying, "where's the sushi," "I like to put yogourt on sushi." and started the convo from there. As we talked I said, "Oh, you should make me sushi after I sleep with you."
Next with (7). I said after I got the eMail, "Hey this is great I have your eMail address. Now we can have sex." They both laughed and I said I was kidding. Wonder if I'm using it right... but it's really a funny style.
Today thus far:
(9) Tried social proof with chick -- gave me confidence to approach #2
(10) Used abcdenary on girl on way into work. Worked well.
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From: dawei968 [email protected]
Date: Friday, August 01, 2003 01:41 PM
Ok-- This message didn't save so I have to type it again.... what happened formhandle???
Affirmation: "I don't compare myself with others: I ask if I am better today than I was yesterday."
Met Miss Chan. Really cute. More on her has it develops.
(11) After meeting chick with picture. Great AI so I approach but it's a bus stop
(12) Another chick, easy opening. But its on a bus
COMMENTS: Buses/bus stops suck ****. But I'll use them to warm up.
(13) White chick. Crash and burn
(14) Another white chick. Crash and burn
COMMENTS: Negative energy towards whites. Plus they have ***** shields. Forget them but use them to warm up.
(15) 2-set of japanese. Open with a fake story about a fight. Cant keep energy.
COMMENTS: How to keep the energy going after an exciting opening. As maniac says, I will remember that chicks want adventure!! This happened with (8) above.
(16) Swiss group.
(17) Another group. 2 guys 2 girls. Eject they seem more interested in the guys
(18) Korean girl use PAIMAI. I love Paimai but another bus stop. ****.
(19) 2set. "What clus do you go to..." Listed a whole bunch. See too socialized. Screen them out.
Here's a place to put all the **** I want so that I can post lay reports in the other areas.
Yesterday:
I figured this would be better! I had such success with 18 approaches the day before that yesterday was a bit of a disappointment.
But, as one 'master' put it:
'yah its very true, the only thing i find hard is keeping it it, yet other days for some reason i cant be bothered, andconsistent. some days i can talk to anyone anywhere and really enjoy it takes a real effort."
Anyway, I did manage to do some approaches. The first one was during work hours. I couldn't get into the office for a while so i walked around. I spotted a chick while I was in a building and saw her walking. I know that it's easier to approach when the chick is stopped so I watched her to see where she would go. She eventually comes into the place and I pretend to open a door to a theater. I ask her which way to go and again, she is super receptive. She is really willing to talk and we make our way to the theater. We fluff and I try to (take advice!) and go for the # close without asking her for it in an indirect way. She has a boyfriend and lives across the water. So she declines. I ask her for eMail and she declines saying she isnt here long enough. NEXT
In malls. I approach (yes getting better) at koreans. I go up to one and ask about shirt sizes... pretty receptive but hard to transition to a real convo.
In a food mart, grab a map as a prob and ask for directions. etc, but again hard to transition. another one, this time on the street holding a map, but no transition. After a while started in the library again and went up to a chinese girl. The problem here was this was my first cold approach for some time, and as formhandle mention its important to get warmed up.
Unfortunately i just didnt seem to get warmed up, despite a number of approaches. Finally this chick just says, "Oh ask a librarian [your question] and I say slightly rudely, "Oh, thaaaaank you".
Did some more cruising but no more approaches for a while.
I met JGIRLEnglishstudent from 8 to 10.
Ok, well it turns out that she was not so pissed off afterall. I met her today and got much more kino going, but failed to get a kiss out of her. I had a great chance--
She told me about this japanese drinking game where you, our case, flip a coin. one person is the king and the other is the slave. I won, so told her to hold my hand. I won again, and stalled! I should have said, "kiss me,"...... but Oh well,
At least this is going on now, and I will meet her at a pub next time.... so time to try some more tactics. She's a bit harder to get close to than some others I have known, but I figure there's no need to rush.
I end the date at 10 and take off with the idea to do more PUing. So i start again at 11 with the idea that I'll have an hour and half to do approaches.
I checked out the venues I used last time... one girl on the bus I used the cell phone opener but, again, as with the chinese girl there was a bit of tension and lack of ease from low approaches that day.
Finally, approached a twoset in a supermarket. they were smelling something so i asked how it smells. they were super responsive and i started chatting. turns out they are from Thailand!! ****, my first tai approaches. anyway, turns out one manages a restaurant and the other one cooks. they tell me where it is but it seems like a ploy to get business. I say, "Oh great for the information, sounds like a free dinner!" They leave.... ha ha! Anyway, there just did not seem to be any possibilities, or, perhaps I was missing them. Anyway, I decided, "what will be will be" and headed back.
With my LTR(?) she called me today. This might be posted elsewhere but, to say the least it's a bit of a confusing situation and I dont know if i shold end it, not, etc... but times moving and i need to make a choice. anyway she called and asked if i wanted to see a movie. i turned her down and she was a bit pissed off. I was a little defensive because, perhaps there is a bit of fear in me -- what If I lose her entirely, how will my confidence be? How long will it take to improve, etc.
But, instead Im going to Taichi where I have a hunch I've got a chance with one of the chicks there.... I use dreams a lot to make decisions and had the notion that she would be a potential lay.... so we will see what happens tonight.
Also tonight Im supposed to go to a bar with my boss (call him Mr. Professional.) I did some research on some places that aren't going to totally bust my wallet to have a few pints, so we'll see what happens there. He can't be a wing since he's got a GF, but its a good learning experience because he's a prime example of an Alpha Male, and he works well with chicks.
In addition, there are the fireworks tonight. This is a great opportunity because tons of people are in one place at one time. The downside is that I have yet to improve (or even work on) approaching groups... oh well, here's my chance. Plus, this year I'm not going with my LTR, so that should help move things along (David shade-- i think it would be hard to convince her to do 3somes!!!)
Ok! More to come.........
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Topic: Suave Dave‘s thread (2 of 3), Read 88 times
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From: dawei968 [email protected]
Date: Thursday, July 31, 2003 05:02 PM
Outing report: Fireworks
I went out after meditation and taichi to the fireworks. I knew this would be a good venue to practice group approaches and that I would have lots of chances.
(1) 2 Jgirls -- no response.
(2) another 2 set -- little response
(3) got @close in supermarket
(4) approached 3 set -- little response. Was a street PU so more difficult
(5) 2 set of whites -- good response. Thought of something great afterwards.
(6) India(n) girls-- interesting response : "You look tight" one told me. Ok, need to work on looking less tight.
(7) @close on a 2set on transit. Possibility here unknown.
(8) One chick-- had response but lots it.
Techniques: I like the idea of an abcdenary -- start with a letter of the alphabet and go from there. This keeps the convo going.
-Social proof: Approach chicks, whether I'm interested or not so other chicks see me with them. Related to maniac's 2000/12 post about a guy who is always seen entering or leaving a place with a chick. When I was talking to chick *(2) below I did notice the chicks checking us/me out.
-GM Style: This is hilarious. I used it on (8). I had started off saying, "where's the sushi," "I like to put yogourt on sushi." and started the convo from there. As we talked I said, "Oh, you should make me sushi after I sleep with you."
Next with (7). I said after I got the eMail, "Hey this is great I have your eMail address. Now we can have sex." They both laughed and I said I was kidding. Wonder if I'm using it right... but it's really a funny style.
Today thus far:
(9) Tried social proof with chick -- gave me confidence to approach #2
(10) Used abcdenary on girl on way into work. Worked well.
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Topic: Suave Dave‘s thread (3 of 3), Read 45 times
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From: dawei968 [email protected]
Date: Friday, August 01, 2003 01:41 PM
Ok-- This message didn't save so I have to type it again.... what happened formhandle???
Affirmation: "I don't compare myself with others: I ask if I am better today than I was yesterday."
Met Miss Chan. Really cute. More on her has it develops.
(11) After meeting chick with picture. Great AI so I approach but it's a bus stop
(12) Another chick, easy opening. But its on a bus
COMMENTS: Buses/bus stops suck ****. But I'll use them to warm up.
(13) White chick. Crash and burn
(14) Another white chick. Crash and burn
COMMENTS: Negative energy towards whites. Plus they have ***** shields. Forget them but use them to warm up.
(15) 2-set of japanese. Open with a fake story about a fight. Cant keep energy.
COMMENTS: How to keep the energy going after an exciting opening. As maniac says, I will remember that chicks want adventure!! This happened with (8) above.
(16) Swiss group.
(17) Another group. 2 guys 2 girls. Eject they seem more interested in the guys
(18) Korean girl use PAIMAI. I love Paimai but another bus stop. ****.
(19) 2set. "What clus do you go to..." Listed a whole bunch. See too socialized. Screen them out.
