"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Suave Dave's log of progress.

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Gunwitch's Advice On Being With Equals

I've realised that in the past I made a big mistake. I used to be a tutor and have to teach English to all these HBs. But the problem was there simply wasn't an equality of attraction. Gunwitch points out that a, say, 7 (looks) with a 9 (looks) will be outmatched and therefore feel really sh*tty all the time because the attraction is at a different level.

I was reminded of this today when I met a chick (from before). She pretty and wasn't receptive to KINO at all. However, I've decided to use her for social proof/as a pivot, all the while practicing SS AND learning a big of Japanese. Who knows what will happen here........
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Final Report! Club Outting: Wing Search

This is my last report, I don't know how much good it has done anyone, but at least it gave me a way to measure my progress viz. last month's results and to keep track of which chicks I have approached; anyway I feel like I'm just talking with myself with these notes so they are better, perhaps, left offline.

(B) Club Outting! I had a brief nap before I went out and waking up I had a dream/vision of the word "Wingman" on my computer screen. I decided, therefore tonight to look for a wingman and boy did this help with last night's problem viz. concern over other Alpha Males! It's licked. Now I go to a club and just talk to anyone, and try to find guys to do Mr. Smooth style (this is my friend, he likes you) to chicks. Perfect.

Total Cost: 10$
Total Approaches: 3

I also tried a technique, "Am I pretty enough for you to make love with me tonight?" I think I'll use that more next time, each time I get eye contact/it's semi-appropriate. Other sh*t too, but that's about it.

Anyway, good luck guys. I'll still post around but I'm not going leave all these small details any longer........................ get out there and approach!!!!! Remember the progress this AFC has made and let it be a lesson-- anyone can change, including YOU!
 

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I like logs like these. You get some tips, you see it all worked out.

I should do one myself, but what it would say is, went to work, went to school, talked to gf.

So until something new comes up, I don't plan on doing one!

I do want to do DJ boot camp soon, and I am leaving my job soon to do an internship in another field, so some cool days will be on the horizon!
 

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Bump.

Can we send this to the archive? Great to see results of persistent approaches everywhere and anywhere.
 
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