I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You just bagged one! Now put hiw up for scrutiny at the troll thread. This is a great snippet of info he just posted.Michele said:Either you're a troll... or you're an idiot who said the same exact thing with Snake's On A Plane (which was your thread... that was locked)
get the **** out.
Your old post about 'Snakes On A Plane'
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Docs said:You my friend, just volunteerred to be test subject #2,
[ hope7 ]
Troll Target Acquired
Your a joke buddy. Get out of the forums. And no everything is not going to be okay. Test subject Number 2!!hope7 said:Its called a joke dude. Calm down, everythings gonna be ok.
hope7 said:Its called a joke dude. Calm down, everythings gonna be ok.