"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Style shows us how a very effective way to get a drink bought for YOU.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not that I would actually use this, but I didn't quite get it. How was she wrong on the fifth one?

How much do suppose the chumps taking notes in the audience paid to learn that trick? :kick:
 

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She was wrong because he said YOU PLAYED THIS GAME BEFORE DIDNT YOU ( question ) ?

And she said NOO ( this is right answer , she didnt play it before since she was falling for this game ) And audience are not paying to learn that trick . They pay for whole 8 DVD's that are great , that help you master the game.

And that is just fun game not a routine or something to get chicks with that .
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
She was wrong because he said YOU PLAYED THIS GAME BEFORE DIDNT YOU ( question ) ?

And she said NOO ( this is right answer , she didnt play it before since she was falling for this game ) And audience are not paying to learn that trick . They pay for whole 8 DVD's that are great , that help you master the game.

And that is just fun game not a routine or something to get chicks with that .
Thanks for clarifying

By audience, I am referring to the 5 chumps who are in attendance.
 

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yeah that would be a funny thing to do I thought, not like a tool for your game or anything, just a little trick up the sleeve for laughs
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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