"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Style shows us how a very effective way to get a drink bought for YOU.

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not that I would actually use this, but I didn't quite get it. How was she wrong on the fifth one?

How much do suppose the chumps taking notes in the audience paid to learn that trick? :kick:
 
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She was wrong because he said YOU PLAYED THIS GAME BEFORE DIDNT YOU ( question ) ?

And she said NOO ( this is right answer , she didnt play it before since she was falling for this game ) And audience are not paying to learn that trick . They pay for whole 8 DVD's that are great , that help you master the game.

And that is just fun game not a routine or something to get chicks with that .
 
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Daddy The Pimp said:
She was wrong because he said YOU PLAYED THIS GAME BEFORE DIDNT YOU ( question ) ?

And she said NOO ( this is right answer , she didnt play it before since she was falling for this game ) And audience are not paying to learn that trick . They pay for whole 8 DVD's that are great , that help you master the game.

And that is just fun game not a routine or something to get chicks with that .
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Thanks for clarifying

By audience, I am referring to the 5 chumps who are in attendance.
 
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yeah that would be a funny thing to do I thought, not like a tool for your game or anything, just a little trick up the sleeve for laughs
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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