"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A mans' Story

Here's a story I was telling my brother the other night about the differences between one guy and anoter it stars your truly. When I was younger I was a timid and kind of nerdy and talked little. The thing is I was never afarid to tell a girl I liked her. Granted I wasn't popular and wasn't very confident I still could say "I like you". Well, there was this one girl who was pretty good looking. I say hey I think you are cute and I want to go out. I know I was scared hell I might've even had my sister tell her.

Well, the story gets worst she never liked me she said Ewww. I hit on here a lot and probably annoyed her. So anyways there was this other kid named Vlass (what kind a fvcking name is that). He was the cool guy the way more confident then me one day. I was riding on the bus with him and noticed he was sitting between two girls one who I didn't like and the girl I coveted. This pissed me off to no end and I know I treated her like crap from then on. The point of the story is this guy was what we would consider terrible me and him were both in detention a lot and he just was wild while I was mild. Some might say he tried to hard. But hell he was more confident then me,and he didn't care what people thought about him.
The point of this story is obvious. You can approach all you want but you bette damn well make sure you have some confidence to back that up. Even young girls can sense who is confident and who is not. This brings me to my last point of why I told my brother this ummm embarassing story. I want him to be more confident then me. I grew up without very many friends and only made some when I acted like a complete @ss and didn't care. That has a lot to do with how many chicks finds a many attractive. Growing up meek can take a lot out of you in the long run so that is why I wrote this. Some people think that what others think is more important because they are cooler and it is not just do your thang say what you want to say and say it with cofidence. There I hop that makes up for the stupid things I posted on here before.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wtf bro?
 

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yeah time to take this down how do you delete posts
 

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i've decided to post something else because that was just dumb to post. The other post was just me venting I can do that at home my second post is about me growing up and how stupid I was
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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