"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A mans' Story

Here's a story I was telling my brother the other night about the differences between one guy and anoter it stars your truly. When I was younger I was a timid and kind of nerdy and talked little. The thing is I was never afarid to tell a girl I liked her. Granted I wasn't popular and wasn't very confident I still could say "I like you". Well, there was this one girl who was pretty good looking. I say hey I think you are cute and I want to go out. I know I was scared hell I might've even had my sister tell her.

Well, the story gets worst she never liked me she said Ewww. I hit on here a lot and probably annoyed her. So anyways there was this other kid named Vlass (what kind a fvcking name is that). He was the cool guy the way more confident then me one day. I was riding on the bus with him and noticed he was sitting between two girls one who I didn't like and the girl I coveted. This pissed me off to no end and I know I treated her like crap from then on. The point of the story is this guy was what we would consider terrible me and him were both in detention a lot and he just was wild while I was mild. Some might say he tried to hard. But hell he was more confident then me,and he didn't care what people thought about him.
The point of this story is obvious. You can approach all you want but you bette damn well make sure you have some confidence to back that up. Even young girls can sense who is confident and who is not. This brings me to my last point of why I told my brother this ummm embarassing story. I want him to be more confident then me. I grew up without very many friends and only made some when I acted like a complete @ss and didn't care. That has a lot to do with how many chicks finds a many attractive. Growing up meek can take a lot out of you in the long run so that is why I wrote this. Some people think that what others think is more important because they are cooler and it is not just do your thang say what you want to say and say it with cofidence. There I hop that makes up for the stupid things I posted on here before.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wtf bro?
 

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yeah time to take this down how do you delete posts
 

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i've decided to post something else because that was just dumb to post. The other post was just me venting I can do that at home my second post is about me growing up and how stupid I was
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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