"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Here's a story I was telling my brother the other night about the differences between one guy and anoter it stars your truly. When I was younger I was a timid and kind of nerdy and talked little. The thing is I was never afarid to tell a girl I liked her. Granted I wasn't popular and wasn't very confident I still could say "I like you". Well, there was this one girl who was pretty good looking. I say hey I think you are cute and I want to go out. I know I was scared hell I might've even had my sister tell her.

Well, the story gets worst she never liked me she said Ewww. I hit on here a lot and probably annoyed her. So anyways there was this other kid named Vlass (what kind a fvcking name is that). He was the cool guy the way more confident then me one day. I was riding on the bus with him and noticed he was sitting between two girls one who I didn't like and the girl I coveted. This pissed me off to no end and I know I treated her like crap from then on. The point of the story is this guy was what we would consider terrible me and him were both in detention a lot and he just was wild while I was mild. Some might say he tried to hard. But hell he was more confident then me,and he didn't care what people thought about him.
The point of this story is obvious. You can approach all you want but you bette damn well make sure you have some confidence to back that up. Even young girls can sense who is confident and who is not. This brings me to my last point of why I told my brother this ummm embarassing story. I want him to be more confident then me. I grew up without very many friends and only made some when I acted like a complete @ss and didn't care. That has a lot to do with how many chicks finds a many attractive. Growing up meek can take a lot out of you in the long run so that is why I wrote this. Some people think that what others think is more important because they are cooler and it is not just do your thang say what you want to say and say it with cofidence. There I hop that makes up for the stupid things I posted on here before.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wtf bro?
 

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yeah time to take this down how do you delete posts
 

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i've decided to post something else because that was just dumb to post. The other post was just me venting I can do that at home my second post is about me growing up and how stupid I was
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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