Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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yeah, you admins can delete this one once i get just a few anwsers.

the thing is i don't seem to be getting enough opportunities to meet new chicks. i do distance-education now, and i only go to the local university for one class. yeah, i'm a college student, but it's tough for me to get involved at the school here when i'm only taking 3cr. and that class is an independent study that consists of 9 guys, all graduate students, with myself as the only undergrad. i try going to school with the excuse of studying for a few hours in the library, hoping that walking on campus and around will give me some opportunities; but overall, it's a lot tougher than if i was just a student. last semester when i was on campus in my univ. in nc, i met a lot of hbs because they were in my classes, near my friends' dorms, or at parties.

i'm only taking 7 cr. this semester, so i feel stupid going to the coffee places on campus to 'study' and see if there are cute girls around, because there's no reason to be there (if i need caffeine to get through a measley 7 cr. i'm an idiot). i can't really join clubs as i don't get any student benefits because i'm not a real student there.

i justed wanted to know, do any of you guys just walk around doing approaches? like, not between classes or while waiting for someone/something, etc., but only approaches. i know clubs/bars are where you would usually go to do this, but i feel more comfortable during the day. what i'm looking for is reassurance that this is not weird to just go walk around and do approaches when you're bored or what not and since you really have no other activity through which you can meet girls.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You are thinking too logically. But even your logic is flawed.
People don't give a rats a55 about you bieng in the cafeteria. And even so what do you care.

If you think what you do is weird chics will think its weird. Women are animals and they only go around perceiving stupid cues and illusions.
 
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Hahaha, you are too funny - as if people really know or care how many 'credits' you carry?? You are deluding yourself - why???
 

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ok, i get the drift, i guess i should have more confidence and not give f*ck. true, others don't know about my credits (heck, now that i think of it, they don't know about my student status either)...i get it now. i'm going out to every student spot from now on. thanks for the reality check guys. my logic was screwed.
 

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thats the spirit man. go for it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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