"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stupid question, but when to call.

xenten

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I know something like this is in the bible but I got a girls number tonight and want to go out with her tomorrow night. Is this too early to call her, because this is about the only time I am free. For the next week. I wanted to call her about 4.30 and see if she wanted to meet me at a coffee place. I know the coffee thing is good but not about the calling. I know I'm thinking this through too much also.

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Mooney
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Common knowledge of DJ's is to wait a couple days, just as the bible advises to. If it is truly your only time free, CALL HER. You got her phone number, which means you sparked some sort of attraction within her, you dont want to loose this attraction by calling to late. When you call her for coffee you can even mention that your busy the entire week, so this is the only day you are free. This shows signs on higher value and social proof.

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Smooth Player 056
 

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I would say the best day to call is Wednesday (Girls usually have plans by Friday for most of the weekend. Monday & Tuesday may be a bit too early in the week for her to make a set date for anything, as most girls are flakes). And definently wait 2-3 days to call.
 

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Well I called tonight hoping to set up something for tonight, but she didn't answer. She has my number so she'll know I called; just hope she doesn't think I'm needy. I don't see her at school so if she doesn't call back I guess I'll call Wednesday and make plans for Saturday, or is that too early to make plans for the weekend? Or Should I call Monday, we are out of school, but I might have plans.

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