"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stupid question, but when to call.

xenten

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I know something like this is in the bible but I got a girls number tonight and want to go out with her tomorrow night. Is this too early to call her, because this is about the only time I am free. For the next week. I wanted to call her about 4.30 and see if she wanted to meet me at a coffee place. I know the coffee thing is good but not about the calling. I know I'm thinking this through too much also.

Thanks,
Mooney
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Common knowledge of DJ's is to wait a couple days, just as the bible advises to. If it is truly your only time free, CALL HER. You got her phone number, which means you sparked some sort of attraction within her, you dont want to loose this attraction by calling to late. When you call her for coffee you can even mention that your busy the entire week, so this is the only day you are free. This shows signs on higher value and social proof.

Sincerely
Smooth Player 056
 

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I would say the best day to call is Wednesday (Girls usually have plans by Friday for most of the weekend. Monday & Tuesday may be a bit too early in the week for her to make a set date for anything, as most girls are flakes). And definently wait 2-3 days to call.
 

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Well I called tonight hoping to set up something for tonight, but she didn't answer. She has my number so she'll know I called; just hope she doesn't think I'm needy. I don't see her at school so if she doesn't call back I guess I'll call Wednesday and make plans for Saturday, or is that too early to make plans for the weekend? Or Should I call Monday, we are out of school, but I might have plans.

Mooney
 
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