"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stupid or What?

John11276

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There comes times in all our lives when we do things that we think are good ideas and then realize that they weren't. My example, I met a girl a few weeks back that works at the same place I do. Well I haven't seen her in a few so I looked up her email addy and sent her a hello, how you doing, send me your number so we can get together sometime email. While I haven't heard back from her, only been a day, I now realize that this wasn't that good of a move and I have actually taken a step backward. BTW, she mentioned to me that she would like to get together for some drinks, but I had other things going on at the time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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should have hooked up with the # when she suggested/agreed to going out for drinks. but you know what to do next time.
-jlc
 

jnallen

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Easy fix. E-Mail her back and tell her that you were busy at the time she asked you to go out but you are free such and such date. It'll work.
 

John11276

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Does it look weird though that I had to ask someone what her last name was to find the email? That's the part I'm concerned about the most. Even though I know never to second guess my actions b/c they are done. There was nothing psycho or anything about the email, really light.
 

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No. It shows you have enough interest in her to take the time to look her up. May flatter her if anything.

If she was't interested she wouldn't have suggested drinks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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