"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Stupid bytch wont put out

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Sorry, just venting after a disappointing date. Me and this girl was in a STR a few months back. we fvcked/french kissed, etc. Recently we started seeing each other again.

Tonight i took her to the movies, obviously we know what couples do there. Bytch wouldnt even put out, not even a friggin kiss. She let me put my arms around her. Supposedly she didnt get much sleep the past night so she was drowsy during the movie for the most part. This dumb bytch always puts on perfume and dresses nicely for me each time she sees me, but
a) won't put out
b) lets me kino her

my IL is and has been 50%...but pissed for wasting my time and effort.
Im just going to ignore her calls if she ever tries...i really want to blow up at her now for wasting my time, but is there even a point? what will it accomplish, that ignoring her calls wont?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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solo1 said:
Supposedly she didnt get much sleep the past night so she was
i would give it another 2 weeks=two dates.. then if she is the same ur wasting ur time because
thats the *dumest excuse i've ever heard. i think your wasting your time.. if she continues to do that, show her a lesson by with drawing ALL the attention.. i mean 110 percent of it.. dont even look at her or talk to her for at least a week.. bitttch needs to kno her spot

sometimes rushing into a second chance girls get parniod.. give her space if she conintue to do it.. let her know that u wont be there for her always.. and when i mean by let her know.. i mean action wise.. Show her that u wont always be there for her,

You are giving her the offer to be with you.. not the other way around. if shes gonna take advantage she can do what my sig says :)
 

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Don't blame her for not putting out. Look in the mirror and decide who let it happen.

Move on.
 

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DevanE said:
It's funny how people on this site preach NEXT that ho or Eff her...try taking it a little slow, enjoy the process a little bit because that is eventually how you will learn.
Insert "Some" in between "how people". Too general.
 

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sexy_kuta said:
tell her to suck yo dik. thats the *dumest excuse i've ever heard. your wasting your time.. show her a lesson by with drawing ALL the attention.. i mean 110 percent of it.. dont even look at her or talk to her for at least a week.. bitttch needs to kno her spot
Yea did that, gave her the brush off when she tried to get a hug when we parted. i find that tends to work and it raises the IL. Push and pull shyt is annoying. The dumb thing is when i had my arm around her and she didnt put out when i tried to kiss her, i left to go to the bathroom, and when i got back, she was fixing her hair and jacket.

She's not a normal girl, even times in the past she tends to make things difficult for me...feel like slapping/punching her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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For men its pretty easy to just turn on an old relationship right where it left off before. For women it takes a bit of ramping up for them to get there sometimes.

I'd give her a couple tries and back off with the pressure. Of course in the mean time... focus on other women. She is obviously in some way interested if she went out with you again.
 

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DevanE said:
Duuude...why is it you gotta rush things, maybe she wasn't even the mood have you even wondered that....? I understand that you guys fuked/kissed previously but take it slow.

It's funny how people on this site preach NEXT that ho or Eff her...try taking it a little slow, enjoy the process a little bit because that is eventually how you will learn.
A big problem with her is she's afraid to show affection in public. One time in starbucks on valentines she even denied me a kiss with an excuse. Maybe it was coincidence, but everytime we made out in the theaters in the past was when there rarely was anyone else around. The one we went to tonight had a lot of people particularly a couple behind us, she even took a look around and behind halfway into hte movie.

The irony of this is, both our egos seem bigger than it used to be. To be honest neither of us really appear to care much about what the other has to say, sometimes on the phone, one convo starts before another ends.
 

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Could be so many reasons:

1. The girl is just a prick teaser that loves the attention, has no intention of putting out, due to some weird unknown reason thats beyong the mind of most human beings! She has no sex drive and is a fridged bee hatch!

2. Ok i'm still bitter about number one to think any more!
 

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Doggystyle said:
Could be so many reasons:

1. The girl is just a prick teaser that loves the attention, has no intention of putting out, due to some weird unknown reason thats beyong the mind of most human beings! She has no sex drive and is a fridged bee hatch!

2. Ok i'm still bitter about number one to think any more!
thats why u give the ho another tweeks. enough for two more dates.. and see whats up.. during those two dates dont push at all.. dont even try.. the second date try and if she acts the same.. I DARE U to walk away from her during the date.. because obviously your wasting your time and shes using you for attention
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sexy_kuta said:
thats why u give the ho another tweeks. enough for two more dates.. and see whats up.. during those two dates dont push at all.. dont even try.. the second date try and if she acts the same.. I DARE U to walk away from her during the date.. because obviously your wasting your time and shes using you for attention
This is the 2nd to last straw, god forbid there be a next time. If there is and again nothing happens ill walk.

I know she's interested, if she wasnt she wouldnt have asked me to meet up with her on her bday a couple weeks ago..which of course i didnt lol.
 

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Bytch wont put out? And you took her to the movies? Don't you feel like a fool right now?

Take them out once they've proven themselves to you as the sluts they love being.
 
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