"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stupid bytch wont put out

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Sorry, just venting after a disappointing date. Me and this girl was in a STR a few months back. we fvcked/french kissed, etc. Recently we started seeing each other again.

Tonight i took her to the movies, obviously we know what couples do there. Bytch wouldnt even put out, not even a friggin kiss. She let me put my arms around her. Supposedly she didnt get much sleep the past night so she was drowsy during the movie for the most part. This dumb bytch always puts on perfume and dresses nicely for me each time she sees me, but
a) won't put out
b) lets me kino her

my IL is and has been 50%...but pissed for wasting my time and effort.
Im just going to ignore her calls if she ever tries...i really want to blow up at her now for wasting my time, but is there even a point? what will it accomplish, that ignoring her calls wont?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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solo1 said:
Supposedly she didnt get much sleep the past night so she was
i would give it another 2 weeks=two dates.. then if she is the same ur wasting ur time because
thats the *dumest excuse i've ever heard. i think your wasting your time.. if she continues to do that, show her a lesson by with drawing ALL the attention.. i mean 110 percent of it.. dont even look at her or talk to her for at least a week.. bitttch needs to kno her spot

sometimes rushing into a second chance girls get parniod.. give her space if she conintue to do it.. let her know that u wont be there for her always.. and when i mean by let her know.. i mean action wise.. Show her that u wont always be there for her,

You are giving her the offer to be with you.. not the other way around. if shes gonna take advantage she can do what my sig says :)
 

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Don't blame her for not putting out. Look in the mirror and decide who let it happen.

Move on.
 

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DevanE said:
It's funny how people on this site preach NEXT that ho or Eff her...try taking it a little slow, enjoy the process a little bit because that is eventually how you will learn.
Insert "Some" in between "how people". Too general.
 

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sexy_kuta said:
tell her to suck yo dik. thats the *dumest excuse i've ever heard. your wasting your time.. show her a lesson by with drawing ALL the attention.. i mean 110 percent of it.. dont even look at her or talk to her for at least a week.. bitttch needs to kno her spot
Yea did that, gave her the brush off when she tried to get a hug when we parted. i find that tends to work and it raises the IL. Push and pull shyt is annoying. The dumb thing is when i had my arm around her and she didnt put out when i tried to kiss her, i left to go to the bathroom, and when i got back, she was fixing her hair and jacket.

She's not a normal girl, even times in the past she tends to make things difficult for me...feel like slapping/punching her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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For men its pretty easy to just turn on an old relationship right where it left off before. For women it takes a bit of ramping up for them to get there sometimes.

I'd give her a couple tries and back off with the pressure. Of course in the mean time... focus on other women. She is obviously in some way interested if she went out with you again.
 

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DevanE said:
Duuude...why is it you gotta rush things, maybe she wasn't even the mood have you even wondered that....? I understand that you guys fuked/kissed previously but take it slow.

It's funny how people on this site preach NEXT that ho or Eff her...try taking it a little slow, enjoy the process a little bit because that is eventually how you will learn.
A big problem with her is she's afraid to show affection in public. One time in starbucks on valentines she even denied me a kiss with an excuse. Maybe it was coincidence, but everytime we made out in the theaters in the past was when there rarely was anyone else around. The one we went to tonight had a lot of people particularly a couple behind us, she even took a look around and behind halfway into hte movie.

The irony of this is, both our egos seem bigger than it used to be. To be honest neither of us really appear to care much about what the other has to say, sometimes on the phone, one convo starts before another ends.
 

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Could be so many reasons:

1. The girl is just a prick teaser that loves the attention, has no intention of putting out, due to some weird unknown reason thats beyong the mind of most human beings! She has no sex drive and is a fridged bee hatch!

2. Ok i'm still bitter about number one to think any more!
 

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Doggystyle said:
Could be so many reasons:

1. The girl is just a prick teaser that loves the attention, has no intention of putting out, due to some weird unknown reason thats beyong the mind of most human beings! She has no sex drive and is a fridged bee hatch!

2. Ok i'm still bitter about number one to think any more!
thats why u give the ho another tweeks. enough for two more dates.. and see whats up.. during those two dates dont push at all.. dont even try.. the second date try and if she acts the same.. I DARE U to walk away from her during the date.. because obviously your wasting your time and shes using you for attention
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sexy_kuta said:
thats why u give the ho another tweeks. enough for two more dates.. and see whats up.. during those two dates dont push at all.. dont even try.. the second date try and if she acts the same.. I DARE U to walk away from her during the date.. because obviously your wasting your time and shes using you for attention
This is the 2nd to last straw, god forbid there be a next time. If there is and again nothing happens ill walk.

I know she's interested, if she wasnt she wouldnt have asked me to meet up with her on her bday a couple weeks ago..which of course i didnt lol.
 

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Bytch wont put out? And you took her to the movies? Don't you feel like a fool right now?

Take them out once they've proven themselves to you as the sluts they love being.
 
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