"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stumped On What 2 Say?

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Help Me I Am Stumped On What 2 Say!!!!

okay theres this new girl I'm tryin to talk 2. today my boy talked to her and he wouldn't tell me what she said. so I told her I was feelin her myself and she said "ha ha so I heard" then I told I wanted to let her know before summer college classes were over and she said "aw". I wanted 2 see her again so I gave her some pizza for some water. my boy said to pull her aside after class tomorrow and talk 2 her, I don't know what to say to her or if I should even talk to her. what should I do?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Talk to her? I think he might be trying to be subtle with you here.
You don't go into specifics so that's the best I can do for you.
 
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I really dont know how to go about saying what I should say. I could really use some help here
 
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Keep it breif and dont ask for her number say something like "i gotta go, give me your number so i can call you later". You can probably think of someting better, but that should work fine. Good luck anyway.
 
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you see the thing is I already have her number and we just moved out today. We text a lot (kind of). I just need to find a way to trick or sway her into calling me because I feel like im doing all the pushing and I feel like it makes me look desperate.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SHEESH DUDE GET SOME BALLS........

YOU: HI this is wuss guy.......

HER: Hi wussy

YOU: LISTEN WE GOTTA TALK, LETS MEET AT THIS PLACE

HER: OKAY, WHAT ABOUT, WHEN

YOU: RIGHT NOW & I'LL TELL YOU AT THE PLACE

HER: OK

YOU: SEE YOU LATER


TA DAH...............so how easy that was, when you get there you introduce kino, humor, then a kiss.

OTHERWISE YOU WILL END UP IN FRIENDZONE...........nuff said........now get your a ss moving.
 
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