"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stumped On What 2 Say?

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Help Me I Am Stumped On What 2 Say!!!!

okay theres this new girl I'm tryin to talk 2. today my boy talked to her and he wouldn't tell me what she said. so I told her I was feelin her myself and she said "ha ha so I heard" then I told I wanted to let her know before summer college classes were over and she said "aw". I wanted 2 see her again so I gave her some pizza for some water. my boy said to pull her aside after class tomorrow and talk 2 her, I don't know what to say to her or if I should even talk to her. what should I do?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Talk to her? I think he might be trying to be subtle with you here.
You don't go into specifics so that's the best I can do for you.
 
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I really dont know how to go about saying what I should say. I could really use some help here
 
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Keep it breif and dont ask for her number say something like "i gotta go, give me your number so i can call you later". You can probably think of someting better, but that should work fine. Good luck anyway.
 
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you see the thing is I already have her number and we just moved out today. We text a lot (kind of). I just need to find a way to trick or sway her into calling me because I feel like im doing all the pushing and I feel like it makes me look desperate.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SHEESH DUDE GET SOME BALLS........

YOU: HI this is wuss guy.......

HER: Hi wussy

YOU: LISTEN WE GOTTA TALK, LETS MEET AT THIS PLACE

HER: OKAY, WHAT ABOUT, WHEN

YOU: RIGHT NOW & I'LL TELL YOU AT THE PLACE

HER: OK

YOU: SEE YOU LATER


TA DAH...............so how easy that was, when you get there you introduce kino, humor, then a kiss.

OTHERWISE YOU WILL END UP IN FRIENDZONE...........nuff said........now get your a ss moving.
 
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