You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What does this have to do with women??I see no point in this pathetic thread someone delete this thread.............................dr0pxx said:What up party people
Just wondering what you guys are limewire'n (downloading). I hear of videos, etc.... Anyone give me some usefull stuff?
thx
dr0p
I see a insecure f@ggot on this thread,come down is the internet nothing but typed pixel wordz,if your this insecure on the internet taking typed words on a computer screen this seriously,OMG I dont wanna even image how your life is like in real life.Ace of Flames said:Stop being an a$$hat dreamx. The only problem with this thread is that its in the wrong forum.
Someone should delete you. As in banned.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Me trying to be a troll?lol I been in this site longer then YOU if you remeber me I been banned atleast over 50 times so this is my 55th time coming.I dont need be a troll you guys are too insecure,the INTERNET is YOU LIFE you take typed words or the INTERENET too damn seriously which is sad,i just cant image your attitude in real life,dear lord.And how am I ruining a good thread??The fact I tell the truthAce of Flames said:Man, stop being so mean to Potbelly. He's neither insecure nor a f@ggot. Sorry Potbelly, this guy fails at life.
Yes, I know that you directed that lame attack at me, in case you couldn't figure it out.
You couldn't fathom what my life is like. I'm not upset by what you've said or insecure in any way. I just don't want you to ruin another good thread.
If you're trying to be a troll, you suck at it. Go take some lessons from Angelus. Trying to compete against him is folly.