You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What does this have to do with women??I see no point in this pathetic thread someone delete this thread.............................dr0pxx said:What up party people
Just wondering what you guys are limewire'n (downloading). I hear of videos, etc.... Anyone give me some usefull stuff?
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I see a insecure f@ggot on this thread,come down is the internet nothing but typed pixel wordz,if your this insecure on the internet taking typed words on a computer screen this seriously,OMG I dont wanna even image how your life is like in real life.Ace of Flames said:Stop being an a$$hat dreamx. The only problem with this thread is that its in the wrong forum.
Someone should delete you. As in banned.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Me trying to be a troll?lol I been in this site longer then YOU if you remeber me I been banned atleast over 50 times so this is my 55th time coming.I dont need be a troll you guys are too insecure,the INTERNET is YOU LIFE you take typed words or the INTERENET too damn seriously which is sad,i just cant image your attitude in real life,dear lord.And how am I ruining a good thread??The fact I tell the truthAce of Flames said:Man, stop being so mean to Potbelly. He's neither insecure nor a f@ggot. Sorry Potbelly, this guy fails at life.
Yes, I know that you directed that lame attack at me, in case you couldn't figure it out.
You couldn't fathom what my life is like. I'm not upset by what you've said or insecure in any way. I just don't want you to ruin another good thread.
If you're trying to be a troll, you suck at it. Go take some lessons from Angelus. Trying to compete against him is folly.