"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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studying psychology but have some doubts.

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hey guys, this is my second year studying to be a psychologist, i am about to graduate from college and start university. however, lately i've been thinking if that is really something i want to do.

i mean i like the career and the idea of helping others, but is it gonna give me enough money to live comfortably? i can become a good psychologist but i wanna know if you guys are studying the same or know people who work as psychologists and if they are making good money

i was also planing on changing to nursing, which is pretty quick 2 1/2 more years at most and you start with 28 dollars an hour, but still i really want some guidance on this and to see if studying psychology with masters and all that will benefit me in the long run
id appreciate the feedback thanx.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You can go into sales with a psychology degree and do well - depending on what you sell. Real estate, mortgages, industrial sales, software, etc.
 

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The way I see it, if your studying a science you should enjoy is, otherwise search for something else.

Remember that the job you do for the rest of your life also adds or subtracts from your life quality, so dont ditch something you like for something that just pays better.

And also, there are people getting good money out of any field, you just have to be good enough.
 

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i would never be a psychologist...they have a high suicide rate. imagine all the negativity you must be around all day everyday....
 

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I'm getting a degree in psychology. Psychology isn't something you can make a lot of money in, unless you're a clinical with your own practice, in which case $$$. Otherwise, do it for the love of the "science".

As for me, I'm totally burnt out on it. I used to enjoy it a lot, but after working in a lab for awhile, I am tired of it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am a psychology major and I am changing to get my masters in physical therapy instead of pursuing psych. Psych makes at most with a masters 40-50K. depending on experience. I just do not think that 7 years of school is worth making only 40-50k.
 

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You guys are thinking too small. First and foremost, you need a PhD to make the good money. Second, you need to go to work in the private sector to make good money. Third, you need to write a book about something.

Think I'm wrong? Think about the "good 'ol boy" Dr. Phil. This is exactly what he did. Everyone thinks Oprah made him, he was a multi-millionaire before he met Oprah because he owned his own business in the private sector.
 

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A PhD is a terrible way to get good money. A PhD is good if you're interested in your work rather than money. If you want money, go into business.
 

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Originally posted by doctoroxygen
A PhD is a terrible way to get good money. A PhD is good if you're interested in your work rather than money. If you want money, go into business.
I take it that you have a PhD and speak from experience, right?
 

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Originally posted by doctoroxygen
A PhD is a terrible way to get good money. A PhD is good if you're interested in your work rather than money. If you want money, go into business.
Business is a rather broad topic bud, try to narrow it down.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I take it that you have a PhD and speak from experience, right?
Because one can only know from experience, right?

I can't think of a career that requires a PhD that leads to a lot of money. College professor? Physicist? Philosopher? PhDs are for academics, and academia alone is not where money is.
 

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Originally posted by doctoroxygen
Because one can only know from experience, right?

I can't think of a career that requires a PhD that leads to a lot of money. College professor? Physicist? Philosopher? PhDs are for academics, and academia alone is not where money is.
Did you even read what I originally posted? Hopefully this isn't an example of what a business degree gets you nowadays...
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
You guys are thinking too small. First and foremost, you need a PhD to make the good money. Second, you need to go to work in the private sector to make good money. Third, you need to write a book about something.
Maybe I'm confused. Do you mean that, to make good money, you need a PhD, or to make good money in PSYCHOLOGY you need a PhD? Either way, it's not true. You don't need a PhD to be a clinical psychologist, and that's where the money is in psychology. IO psychologists make decent money, but not like clinicals. Psychologists employed by universities make relatively little money. Psychologists aren't really employed elsewhere.

You're right about writing books to make money, though. Most well-to-do professors at my school are where they are because of the basic level texts they authored that are used around the country.

I'm actually a psychology major, not business. So I won't be making any money either way.
 

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What if you get a PhD in psychology and work for the FBI in the violent crimes division?

The money is good, and you get a sh!tload of benefits. Its also a great conversation icebreaker.

"So what do you do?"
"I hunt serial killers."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thanx for your relplys guys, ive been thinking about it and if psychology is the field i like i think i should go for it all the way with masters and phd,

sincmaster, u say u are a psychologist, what exactly you do as a psychologist? and yea my dream is to do somthing like tony robins and have people pay to listen to me speak in semminars do you guys think that is possible/?

thanx
 
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