But where there is determination, solution is distant and impossible to reach due to the lack of strong will to act. Strong determination can sometimes make you delusional. Delusion clouds strong will.
Determination IS willpower, at least my dictionary says so. The word I want to use is "Entschlusskraft" in german, so you can look that up if you like
And experience IS everything. You CANNOT treat all women the same way. You can't treat a 10 just the same way that you'd treat a 5. Why? Because that 5/6/7 isn't used to guys drooling all over her. Actually, I'd say that 7 and 8 are the ones that get hit on the MOST because lot of guys have the guts to approach them, whereas 9 and 10 don't get hit on because not that many guys have the guts to even look at them in the eye, much less approach them.
If experience was everything, my grandfather would score more HBs than I do. Even if this is exaggerated, experience is not everything. Experience is important, looks are important, character is important, the right habits are important but endurance is power ultimum.
And yes, you can treat all women the same. You know, we are looking from a different point of view here. You put the focus on the girls. That's why you say: You can't treat them the same, because they are not used to it. You are using rationalism.
I am putting the focus on myself, where the question if I can treat all women the same is just a matter of myself not being impressed by looks. So yes, you can treat all women the same, it requieres some willpower and insight, but it is possible.
Quick example here: I know two girls, one is about a 6 and one is a 7. That's also what other people say. So they initially had no interest. When I started educating myself at this site and trying out new stuff the 6 got quiet interested in me. Still, I was treating both of them the same. The 7 saw this interest and became interested in me too! Normally girls wouldn't care much if other girls that don't look as good as them are interested in some guy. But by treating them the same I flatened out the look difference between them. It's all in your mind guys. Women are reactive in nature, if you tell her she is ugly, she is going to think that she is ugly (alright, oppinions from other people come into play, but you get the point). So if I treat the HB6 like a 7 and the 7 like a 6, they are going to believe that they are that way.
The Nice Guy treats the girl like a princess. She thinks she is a princess and tries to find someone better and worthier.
The Jerk treats the woman like crap. She believes she is crap and is happy to have him. At least for a while
So if you treat all women the same you are leveling out the looks difference. In my Nice Guy days girls came to me crying after they broke up with their boyfriends that they were so ugly and their firends were so beautiful. Now these girls were like 7s and 8s and their friends sometimes just soemthing like 4s and 5s. Girls have no idea how they are looking. They ask other people and the media and then adjust.
So treat them all the same! Light, warm, playful, sexual.
Go ahead and approach/treat a 10 just as same as you would a 6 or 7. Come back and tell me how that goes for you.
I would if there would be any 10
I can only tell you that my approaches are just situational (where am I, what is she doing) and not depending on the looks of the girl. I could care less what other people think about her looks which is were the whole HB# system comes from. She is a girl, I am a guy, so where is the damn problem? (at least if she isn't a lesbian)
You're right that don't let anybody tell you a girl is out of your league. But you have to be a realist sometimes. You have to check yourself and figure out if you DESERVE that 10. Guys rambling on here that they DESERVE a 10 is absolute bull. Take a look at yourself in the mirror for once. Have you made yourself the best possible man that you can be? If not, then you don't deserve that 10.
This is exactly what I said in my first posts. You have to apply your standarts to yourself, which forces you on the path of self-improvement. But make no mistake: This is just for your standarts. If your standarts are a 7 and you see a 9, just approach her anyways, you have nothing to loose but you might get "lucky". (This is btw why soccerteams like Lichtenstein sometimes win against much better teams like Germany, because they have nothing to loose and go in without pressure).
And by the way, I'm defining that 10, for argumentative purpose, as somebody who is "perfect" in looks and personality.
Same here. And someone perfect is not just boring and unhuman, but also doesn't exist.
