mr. kennedy
Senior Don Juan
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well, you don't sound as stupid as the OP. I think a better idea isSmooveMooves said:Don't believe this. Forget a source I know from experience.
I'm a young dude.
Porn + routine masturbation = C0ck probs
No porn + Occasional masturbation = Healthy c0ck function.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I don't care if you watch it since your almost an old man...but please don't encourage young, teenager boys to watch this sick thing. It can really mess people up. It should never be watchedmr. kennedy said:^ What if it's a few times a week?
Yeah just like not one diet plan fits everyone, I don't believe one masturbation or porn plan fits everyone either.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:just like how great coffee is for you too haha people are not really believing this **** anymore
Can watching porn make you better in bed?
Next week at (insert random taxpayer drain sh!tlib "university") we find out a steady diet of corn syrup, sedentary lifestyles and weed is really really good for all you fvckin zombies :cheer:PairPlusRoyalFlush said:just like how great coffee is for you too haha people are not really believing this **** anymore
The question isn't watching porn vs sleeping with real women. It's obvious what the best option is there.newuser said:I don't care if you watch it since your almost an old man...but please don't encourage young, teenager boys to watch this sick thing. It can really mess people up. It should never be watched
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.