mr. kennedy
Senior Don Juan
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Well, you don't sound as stupid as the OP. I think a better idea isSmooveMooves said:Don't believe this. Forget a source I know from experience.
I'm a young dude.
Porn + routine masturbation = C0ck probs
No porn + Occasional masturbation = Healthy c0ck function.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I don't care if you watch it since your almost an old man...but please don't encourage young, teenager boys to watch this sick thing. It can really mess people up. It should never be watchedmr. kennedy said:^ What if it's a few times a week?
Yeah just like not one diet plan fits everyone, I don't believe one masturbation or porn plan fits everyone either.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:just like how great coffee is for you too haha people are not really believing this **** anymore
Can watching porn make you better in bed?
Next week at (insert random taxpayer drain sh!tlib "university") we find out a steady diet of corn syrup, sedentary lifestyles and weed is really really good for all you fvckin zombies :cheer:PairPlusRoyalFlush said:just like how great coffee is for you too haha people are not really believing this **** anymore
The question isn't watching porn vs sleeping with real women. It's obvious what the best option is there.newuser said:I don't care if you watch it since your almost an old man...but please don't encourage young, teenager boys to watch this sick thing. It can really mess people up. It should never be watched
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.