mr. kennedy
Senior Don Juan
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well, you don't sound as stupid as the OP. I think a better idea isSmooveMooves said:Don't believe this. Forget a source I know from experience.
I'm a young dude.
Porn + routine masturbation = C0ck probs
No porn + Occasional masturbation = Healthy c0ck function.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't care if you watch it since your almost an old man...but please don't encourage young, teenager boys to watch this sick thing. It can really mess people up. It should never be watchedmr. kennedy said:^ What if it's a few times a week?
Yeah just like not one diet plan fits everyone, I don't believe one masturbation or porn plan fits everyone either.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:just like how great coffee is for you too haha people are not really believing this **** anymore
Can watching porn make you better in bed?
Next week at (insert random taxpayer drain sh!tlib "university") we find out a steady diet of corn syrup, sedentary lifestyles and weed is really really good for all you fvckin zombies :cheer:PairPlusRoyalFlush said:just like how great coffee is for you too haha people are not really believing this **** anymore
The question isn't watching porn vs sleeping with real women. It's obvious what the best option is there.newuser said:I don't care if you watch it since your almost an old man...but please don't encourage young, teenager boys to watch this sick thing. It can really mess people up. It should never be watched
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.