"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Study on pick-up lines...

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lildevil

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LEts face it pick up lines....+as well as boring nice guys should be thing of the past and we know it.....at some point in our lives we became AFC's because the things that happened in our childhood the bad experiences we had in the past and the bad believes that we tooks as our own.....pickup-lines are back from the old ages back when our mom and dads lived....being a nice guy should be tooo...but we simply have to go through trial and error and have the desire to grow....those studies have nothing valuable to show...we got to learn to dispense from this material....

Love is like playing piano first..you got to learn how to play by the rules than you got to forget the rules and play fromyour heart
 

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I don't even waste my time with pick up lines... Situational openers are much better!
 
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I agree with bachelor

But I think any study that relies on what women say they find attractive has some issues.

"I can't imagine anyone being turned on by this "bad mate" kind of guy, but some women seem to be less put off than others. If you look like George Clooney, you may be able to get away with a whole range of things," Dr Caryl said.
This researcher is a total chump.
 

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pick up lines are ok.. but u must be clear on what to say next..

a pickup line doesnot mean a woman will open her pants for u on hearing it

If you give a pick up line and ask immediatly after that " So what do you do?", your setting up yourself for disaster..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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