"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Study on pick-up lines...

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lildevil

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LEts face it pick up lines....+as well as boring nice guys should be thing of the past and we know it.....at some point in our lives we became AFC's because the things that happened in our childhood the bad experiences we had in the past and the bad believes that we tooks as our own.....pickup-lines are back from the old ages back when our mom and dads lived....being a nice guy should be tooo...but we simply have to go through trial and error and have the desire to grow....those studies have nothing valuable to show...we got to learn to dispense from this material....

Love is like playing piano first..you got to learn how to play by the rules than you got to forget the rules and play fromyour heart
 

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I don't even waste my time with pick up lines... Situational openers are much better!
 
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I agree with bachelor

But I think any study that relies on what women say they find attractive has some issues.

"I can't imagine anyone being turned on by this "bad mate" kind of guy, but some women seem to be less put off than others. If you look like George Clooney, you may be able to get away with a whole range of things," Dr Caryl said.
This researcher is a total chump.
 

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pick up lines are ok.. but u must be clear on what to say next..

a pickup line doesnot mean a woman will open her pants for u on hearing it

If you give a pick up line and ask immediatly after that " So what do you do?", your setting up yourself for disaster..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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