"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Study on pick-up lines...

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lildevil

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LEts face it pick up lines....+as well as boring nice guys should be thing of the past and we know it.....at some point in our lives we became AFC's because the things that happened in our childhood the bad experiences we had in the past and the bad believes that we tooks as our own.....pickup-lines are back from the old ages back when our mom and dads lived....being a nice guy should be tooo...but we simply have to go through trial and error and have the desire to grow....those studies have nothing valuable to show...we got to learn to dispense from this material....

Love is like playing piano first..you got to learn how to play by the rules than you got to forget the rules and play fromyour heart
 

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I don't even waste my time with pick up lines... Situational openers are much better!
 
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I agree with bachelor

But I think any study that relies on what women say they find attractive has some issues.

"I can't imagine anyone being turned on by this "bad mate" kind of guy, but some women seem to be less put off than others. If you look like George Clooney, you may be able to get away with a whole range of things," Dr Caryl said.
This researcher is a total chump.
 

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pick up lines are ok.. but u must be clear on what to say next..

a pickup line doesnot mean a woman will open her pants for u on hearing it

If you give a pick up line and ask immediatly after that " So what do you do?", your setting up yourself for disaster..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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