"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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study: obese women have a more difficult time finding a partner

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I saw her get 3-4 dinner date offers from top doctors in town
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Top doctors, really? I would think those guys would be at the top of the dating totem pole value wise, I'm surprised they gave this girl so much attention.

But we hear looks are more important to guys?

I would agree with you. I see plenty of decent/average looking guys settling with some . . well, you wouldn't believe. Rarely do you see it the other way around.
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That's a good point actually. I agree, I see a lot of guys who appear to be settling down. And despite the fact that it's always brought up on this forum as an example, it's much rarer to see it the other way around. Not sure how that squares with what we've been told by the pickup gurus.

gym time for you!
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If he's getting just as much sex as a slim guy, why bother?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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zekko said:
Top doctors, really? I would think those guys would be at the top of the dating totem pole value wise, I'm surprised they gave this girl so much attention.
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We were at a club party held by her sister (who's a hottie btw), whose BF is a top surgeon in my city. The men there were his colleagues & friends. They are loaded but have no game. It's fairly common among doctors. Many are nerds who study way too much and never develop social skills.

I couldn't quite believe it myself, but I was standing right next to her (with my back to her & the guys) and heard the whole thing.
 
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zekko said:
If he's getting just as much sex as a slim guy, why bother?
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He gets less sex than his slimmer self.

Besides, it'd be more enjoyable than a few pumps and having to take a break cos he's out of breath, and also because having a lean, muscular physique makes sex better than realising that your man tits are bigger than the girl's in the bedroom.
 
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That's why some fat girls are ****y, cos there are plenty of guys out there who like to ride the oink oink.
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After looking at one thread in the anything else forums, I'd say more guys are about the oink oink than I would have thought otherwise.
 
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He gets less sex than his slimmer self.

Besides, it'd be more enjoyable than a few pumps and having to take a break cos he's out of breath, and also because having a lean, muscular physique makes sex better than realising that your man tits are bigger than the girl's in the bedroom.
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Just to clarify, the "If he's getting just as much sex as a slim guy, why bother?" remark was just a joke, a poor one admittedly.

Obviously you should work out for yourself mainly, not just to get some poon. To work out just for women actually strikes me as kind of pathetic. Do it for your health. Sometimes women can provide a nice added incentive though :)

Slim Guy might also get a higher quality of woman than Fat Guy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My favorite part of the article is this:

"It seems like a no-brainer," he said. "If you lose weight, you will feel more attractive and that could improve your sex life."
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Umm... how about if you lose weight, you ARE more attractive and men will want to bone you. Has nothing to do with the chick's feelings, everything to do with the fact that most guys don't want to bang fatties.
 
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