study: obese women have a more difficult time finding a partner

[zekko]

I saw her get 3-4 dinner date offers from top doctors in town

Top doctors, really? I would think those guys would be at the top of the dating totem pole value wise, I'm surprised they gave this girl so much attention.

But we hear looks are more important to guys?

I would agree with you. I see plenty of decent/average looking guys settling with some . . well, you wouldn't believe. Rarely do you see it the other way around.

That's a good point actually. I agree, I see a lot of guys who appear to be settling down. And despite the fact that it's always brought up on this forum as an example, it's much rarer to see it the other way around. Not sure how that squares with what we've been told by the pickup gurus.

gym time for you!

If he's getting just as much sex as a slim guy, why bother?

 

[Jitterbug]

Top doctors, really? I would think those guys would be at the top of the dating totem pole value wise, I'm surprised they gave this girl so much attention.

We were at a club party held by her sister (who's a hottie btw), whose BF is a top surgeon in my city. The men there were his colleagues & friends. They are loaded but have no game. It's fairly common among doctors. Many are nerds who study way too much and never develop social skills.

I couldn't quite believe it myself, but I was standing right next to her (with my back to her & the guys) and heard the whole thing.

 

[Jitterbug]

If he's getting just as much sex as a slim guy, why bother?

He gets less sex than his slimmer self.

Besides, it'd be more enjoyable than a few pumps and having to take a break cos he's out of breath, and also because having a lean, muscular physique makes sex better than realising that your man tits are bigger than the girl's in the bedroom.

 

[synergy1]

That's why some fat girls are ****y, cos there are plenty of guys out there who like to ride the oink oink.

After looking at one thread in the anything else forums, I'd say more guys are about the oink oink than I would have thought otherwise.

 

[zekko]

He gets less sex than his slimmer self.

Besides, it'd be more enjoyable than a few pumps and having to take a break cos he's out of breath, and also because having a lean, muscular physique makes sex better than realising that your man tits are bigger than the girl's in the bedroom.

Just to clarify, the "If he's getting just as much sex as a slim guy, why bother?" remark was just a joke, a poor one admittedly.

Obviously you should work out for yourself mainly, not just to get some poon. To work out just for women actually strikes me as kind of pathetic. Do it for your health. Sometimes women can provide a nice added incentive though

Slim Guy might also get a higher quality of woman than Fat Guy.

 

[Zarky]

My favorite part of the article is this:

"It seems like a no-brainer," he said. "If you lose weight, you will feel more attractive and that could improve your sex life."

Umm... how about if you lose weight, you ARE more attractive and men will want to bone you. Has nothing to do with the chick's feelings, everything to do with the fact that most guys don't want to bang fatties.