"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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study: obese women have a more difficult time finding a partner

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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and in other breaking news, there's an oil spill in the gulf of mexico! :crackup:
 

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Repeated thrusting of an erect penis inside of a tight vagina may lead to ejaculation.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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These obvious conclusions are politically incorrect - therefore one must analyze data in order to have an adequate basis for sounding *insensitive*
 

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All I see on the dating site are fatties. Its probably about 5-10% of normal looking, and the rest are whales and ugly. I canceled my pof account and am about a mouse click away from canceling the other one. No, good leads since their inception since its basically a beached whale fest wherever I look.

It is always my sincerest hope that fat people are bred out of society, but thats not how its working. Current statistics say 66% of Americans are obese, but I think that number might be higher. Basically they all breed together and consume large amounts of food and medical expenses.

okay, I am done.

Edit: I deleted my account immediately after posting this. I don't want a brigade of fat chicks hunting me down!!
 

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In a new study, European researchers found obese women had more trouble finding a sexual partner than their normal-weight counterparts, though the same wasn't true for obese men, and were four times as likely to have an unplanned pregnancy.
That right there is pure gold. It says so much with so little text...
 

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synergy1 said:
All I see on the dating site are fatties. Its probably about 5-10% of normal looking, and the rest are whales and ugly. I canceled my pof account and am about a mouse click away from canceling the other one. No, good leads since their inception since its basically a beached whale fest wherever I look.

Is that really a surprise? For the most part, the women on dating sites can't get a quality man in real life.

Just like people who post on relationship message boards (loveshack), if you read those posts (without keeping in mind that good looking people who aren't nuts, don't post on forums) you would think that everyone is cheating on each other.
 

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FLGuy said:
Is that really a surprise? For the most part, the women on dating sites can't get a quality man in real life.

Just like people who post on relationship message boards (loveshack), if you read those posts (without keeping in mind that good looking people who aren't nuts, don't post on forums) you would think that everyone is cheating on each other.
Valid point, but where I am from its not quite as easy to have a social life as a city. I consider myself normal , but still experimented with the stupid dating sites until recently. But it must be a small percentage of the total representation on those things.

Speaking of small percentages, most of the good looking women who go to my gym are committed. I would say close to 80% show up with their boyfriends. The rest are married. Even mediocre looking women have boyfriends here. Its easy to get into the scarcity mentality illusion. I know better, but if you lived here your whole life, I can see how you wouldn't.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Speaking of small percentages, most of the good looking women who go to my gym are committed. I would say close to 80% show up with their boyfriends. The rest are married. Even mediocre looking women have boyfriends here.
See, now this is what I was saying in another thread. Guys and girls pair up. It's not just the top 10% of the guys who are getting all the action. People pair up. That's why I say I don't believe the 10%-90% theory. I'm not sure what your city is like, but it sounds like mine is much the same. The single girls are out there though, you just have to keep looking.
 

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Fat, disgusting, mutant women still get laid. Fat, disgusting, mutant men become serial killers.
 

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Here's a question; of single obese men and single obese women, which do you think has sex more frequently?
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Here's a question; of single obese men and single obese women, which do you think has sex more frequently?

I would say single obese women have more sex.
 

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zekko said:
See, now this is what I was saying in another thread. Guys and girls pair up. It's not just the top 10% of the guys who are getting all the action. People pair up. That's why I say I don't believe the 10%-90% theory. I'm not sure what your city is like, but it sounds like mine is much the same. The single girls are out there though, you just have to keep looking.
There are, they just are a few short hours drive away!

Good way to put the 90/10 theory. I think as much as everyone romanticizes about the prospect or real players banging plethora of women, most of the time people pair up. At least this is what I see. The better dudes probably still get their pick though. I am sure in some social circles, the 90/10 thing applies.

In response to the question: I think the women would. there is always a dude who is willing to do anything for sex.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Good way to put the 90/10 theory. I think as much as everyone romanticizes about the prospect or real players banging plethora of women, most of the time people pair up. At least this is what I see. The better dudes probably still get their pick though.
That's what I think, the top guys get their pick. But then the rest pair up (or most of them anyway).

It may be that the 10/90 thing applies in bars or clubs. If there are 100 guys in a bar, 10 guys score while the rest stare into their drinks. Maybe, I don't know, I'm just guessing. As far as I'm concerned, the "players" who are hosing all these women are just passing around the same bar slvts.
 

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Hypergamy is the answer you're looking for.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Here's a question; of single obese men and single obese women, which do you think has sex more frequently?
The women, no doubt.

I had a female American friend who's 5'4" and 90kg (200lbs). When I hanged out with her while she was here, I saw her get 3-4 dinner date offers from top doctors in town, and a few date/sex offers from guys who, while having zero game, are quite fit & decent looking. She turned all of them down. She showed me photos of some of her exes and they're all very fit & good-looking guys.

That's why some fat girls are ****y, cos there are plenty of guys out there who like to ride the oink oink.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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