Study finds that men tend to overperceive sexual interest from women, explaining the whole “She wants fr” phenomenon

[jafman]

What was she wearing?

A ghillie suit.

 

[self_is_an_illusion]

If you have a polarizing/striking/edgy presentation, you can eliminate a lot of this. Females won't give you false signals from thinking you are "safe" to be friendly with.

Got it.

That's because a lot of guys hear what they want to hear and justify her behavior to make their ego feel better about the situation

Pretty much

 

[LTG71]

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797619900315

The study involved 1,226 participants, and aimed to investigate whether sociosexual orientation and projection played a role in sex differences in misperceptions of sexual interest. The participants engaged in a speed-dating task where they rated their own and their partner's sexual interest. Results showed that men tended to overestimate sexual interest, while women tended to underestimate it.

Have you guys experienced this? I definitely have gone through experiences of thinking a girl was super into me and then as soon as I ask her out or try to escalate I learn the truth that she was just being nice. All those “signs” I was reading were actually weren’t as real as I thought.

Here‘s two “Christian” girls explaining why, lol. Basically telling women to friendzone guys that they don’t find sexually attractive. Main girl explains how she had a great male friend, kind, similar interest, got along great, good connection between the two. He sees how well they get along and suggests going to the next level, she is shocked. She had zero sexual interest in this guy. They proceed to tell other women to keep “friendships” surface level and superficial and only go on group gatherings to avoid guys trying to escalate. What’s hilarious is they keep mentioning Christ. As if Christ only wants you to bang hot guys and snub everyone else. Women know exactly what they are doing. It’s called manipulation and they wrote the book on it.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Here‘s two “Christian” girls explaining why, lol. Basically telling women to friendzone guys that they don’t find sexually attractive. Main girl explains how she had a great male friend, kind, similar interest, got along great, good connection between the two. He sees how well they get along and suggests going to the next level, she is shocked. She had zero sexual interest in this guy. They proceed to tell other women to keep “friendships” surface level and superficial and only go on group gatherings to avoid guys trying to escalate. What’s hilarious is they keep mentioning Christ. As if Christ only wants you to bang hot guys and snub everyone else. Women know exactly what they are doing. It’s called manipulation and they wrote the book on it.

Far-right women are as bad as far-left in my experience

 

[LTG71]

Far-right women are as bad as far-left in my experience

Yeah, this applies to all women.

 

[LTG71]

"You know how challenging it can be" Yeah, I bet it's very challenging to prevent yourself from leading a guy on to keep him as an emotional tampon.

Exactly. Gotta apply the right amount of fake interest to keep the supply on tap.

 

[BadBoy89]

Here‘s two “Christian” girls explaining why, lol. Basically telling women to friendzone guys that they don’t find sexually attractive.

No guy in his right mind would have sexual interest in the girl on the left. She looks butch.

The girl on the right, OK. One move, if no response. Move on.

 

[self_is_an_illusion]

Here‘s two “Christian” girls explaining why, lol. Basically telling women to friendzone guys that they don’t find sexually attractive. Main girl explains how she had a great male friend, kind, similar interest, got along great, good connection between the two. He sees how well they get along and suggests going to the next level, she is shocked. She had zero sexual interest in this guy. They proceed to tell other women to keep “friendships” surface level and superficial and only go on group gatherings to avoid guys trying to escalate. What’s hilarious is they keep mentioning Christ. As if Christ only wants you to bang hot guys and snub everyone else. Women know exactly what they are doing. It’s called manipulation and they wrote the book on it.

Thank you for sharing this. The girl on the right is good: "All my actions were confusing him". It's good to see that there are women out there that can see things from the guy perspective.