"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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stuck in a sandwich

Wal Doe

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i'm stuck in a sandwich here. i have to pick. in one of my classes, one hot girl has made more advances than the other, but the other one is extremely gorgeous and very flirtatious as well. they're mild friends. can i just pick, or is this a risky situation? i don't know how to deal with these. never happened to me. i like both. but i can only have one. the walls are closing in, so how do i go about this without looking like a pig, or am i just screwed? :confused:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DoubleD

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Start dating both.. and see which one you actually like better and is better suited to your needs / desires. I don't see what the big dilemma is. Just cause you date doesn't mean you are exclusive there and then. Once you made up your mind and you decide to only see one.. let the other one know.

You may find out that they are both complete nut jobs that you don't want anything serious with either...

So for now start hanging out with both and play it cool.

DoubleD
 

flunky

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I think the rule here is, "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush", i.e., go for the one that's making herself available to you.
 

Wal Doe

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it's kinda' hard. they both have good qualities. and well...they are both making themselves available. oh well...thx for the tip.
 

-HPNOTIQ-

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agreed..isolate them apart from each other...

date them both....dinner, drinks, whatever..its a date..no strings attached

if they are like typical hot women, when they find out you are dating both of them, it will make YOU the challenge...

if you play your cards right, they'll most likely try to compete for you!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wal Doe

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yeah. i hate it when women become difficult, but with the hot ones it is expected. so much work. a slacker like me can't get a break! so i guess what i'll do is figure out which one is worth putting all that work into...ahem. yeah.
 
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