"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stubble or Clean Shaven

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marceldwayne

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I got this conflict of interests....

See i want to be as alpha as possible, and im having some problems.

If i am clean shaven i look like im fricken 16.... and im in 3rd year university already considered young cuz im still 19.

Is it a big deal to have a little stubble? i purposely trim that way. Does it look awkward in clubs? maybe that hurts my game i dont know...

let me hear ur thoughts.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Soprano

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you should just do whatever you feel more comfortable with. your on your best game when you're comfortable.
 
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Eccentric

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Lack of self confidence hurts your game, not how you shave.
 
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DonMEgaHoss

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If you dont have a pudgy cheeks or jaw area. Stubble is fine or better. Check George Clooney, I dont mean to start sound like the annoying doc love but, It makes you seem more rugged or tougher whatever. Or lazy slob if you kinda pudgy face.

I personally switch between both. Shave, wait a day or two depending on how fast your facial hair grows and shave again.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Centaurion

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I've got a constant 5'a clock shadow. Makes me look more rugged. If you look like a friggin 16 year old, I suggest you go with the stubble.
 
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I've got a goatee, but not one of those gay ones that connects and has a mustache. Just on the chin.
 
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