"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stubble or Clean Shaven

marceldwayne

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I got this conflict of interests....

See i want to be as alpha as possible, and im having some problems.

If i am clean shaven i look like im fricken 16.... and im in 3rd year university already considered young cuz im still 19.

Is it a big deal to have a little stubble? i purposely trim that way. Does it look awkward in clubs? maybe that hurts my game i dont know...

let me hear ur thoughts.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Soprano

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you should just do whatever you feel more comfortable with. your on your best game when you're comfortable.
 

Eccentric

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Lack of self confidence hurts your game, not how you shave.
 

DonMEgaHoss

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If you dont have a pudgy cheeks or jaw area. Stubble is fine or better. Check George Clooney, I dont mean to start sound like the annoying doc love but, It makes you seem more rugged or tougher whatever. Or lazy slob if you kinda pudgy face.

I personally switch between both. Shave, wait a day or two depending on how fast your facial hair grows and shave again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Centaurion

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I've got a constant 5'a clock shadow. Makes me look more rugged. If you look like a friggin 16 year old, I suggest you go with the stubble.
 

Zombie

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I've got a goatee, but not one of those gay ones that connects and has a mustache. Just on the chin.
 
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