"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mojo16

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ive fallen for a girl who has no idea what she wants.
She says she isnt sure if she likes me, and that she has commitment issues.
In my heart I know that she does like me, and I'm wondering what i need to doto make her realise she likes me.

And no, im not totally stupid, she isnt just trying to brush me aside... she has nevereven been kissed before, and i think the main reason she is so difficult is because she is scared of a relationship.

Sometimes i think that she wants me there as a surrogate boyfriend until something better comes along. i dont know what to think.

WHAT DO I NEED TO DO???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Black Dog

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Bro!!!! Lol you sound JUST like my friend. He is IN LOVE with this one girl. They've known each other since 7th grade, she was his first lay, and he's got all these feelings for her. Unfortunately this girl is a ho, she simply can't handle a faithful relationship, but he can't see whats right in front of him and is determined he can "change" this girl so that they can be a couple.

He's said the same things as you. "In my heart I know she likes me" even though her actions reflect differently.

I think that you shouldn't waste your valuable time and energy on a girl that doesn't know what she wants, and wisely use it on a girl that DOES know what she wants.

mojo16 said:
Sometimes i think that she wants me there as a surrogate boyfriend until something better comes along. i dont know what to think.

WHAT DO I NEED TO DO???
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Thats a big no-no my friend. Respect yourself more than to be a temporary toy "until something better comes along."

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You should stop worrying about this one dumb b*tch and move on to other females.
 
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DonJoseCantosie

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+1 Rep BlackDog!

Def focus on other girls for the time being too. But also you could take her out, try to seal the deal and then be straightforward with her and if she can't be straightforward back, move on to someone better :).
 
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