struggling

[mojo16]

ive fallen for a girl who has no idea what she wants.
She says she isnt sure if she likes me, and that she has commitment issues.
In my heart I know that she does like me, and I'm wondering what i need to doto make her realise she likes me.

And no, im not totally stupid, she isnt just trying to brush me aside... she has nevereven been kissed before, and i think the main reason she is so difficult is because she is scared of a relationship.

Sometimes i think that she wants me there as a surrogate boyfriend until something better comes along. i dont know what to think.

WHAT DO I NEED TO DO???

 

[Black Dog]

Bro!!!! Lol you sound JUST like my friend. He is IN LOVE with this one girl. They've known each other since 7th grade, she was his first lay, and he's got all these feelings for her. Unfortunately this girl is a ho, she simply can't handle a faithful relationship, but he can't see whats right in front of him and is determined he can "change" this girl so that they can be a couple.

He's said the same things as you. "In my heart I know she likes me" even though her actions reflect differently.

I think that you shouldn't waste your valuable time and energy on a girl that doesn't know what she wants, and wisely use it on a girl that DOES know what she wants.

Sometimes i think that she wants me there as a surrogate boyfriend until something better comes along. i dont know what to think.

WHAT DO I NEED TO DO???

Thats a big no-no my friend. Respect yourself more than to be a temporary toy "until something better comes along."

WHAT DO I NEED TO DO???

You should stop worrying about this one dumb b*tch and move on to other females.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

+1 Rep BlackDog!

Def focus on other girls for the time being too. But also you could take her out, try to seal the deal and then be straightforward with her and if she can't be straightforward back, move on to someone better .