"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mojo16

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ive fallen for a girl who has no idea what she wants.
She says she isnt sure if she likes me, and that she has commitment issues.
In my heart I know that she does like me, and I'm wondering what i need to doto make her realise she likes me.

And no, im not totally stupid, she isnt just trying to brush me aside... she has nevereven been kissed before, and i think the main reason she is so difficult is because she is scared of a relationship.

Sometimes i think that she wants me there as a surrogate boyfriend until something better comes along. i dont know what to think.

WHAT DO I NEED TO DO???
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Black Dog

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Bro!!!! Lol you sound JUST like my friend. He is IN LOVE with this one girl. They've known each other since 7th grade, she was his first lay, and he's got all these feelings for her. Unfortunately this girl is a ho, she simply can't handle a faithful relationship, but he can't see whats right in front of him and is determined he can "change" this girl so that they can be a couple.

He's said the same things as you. "In my heart I know she likes me" even though her actions reflect differently.

I think that you shouldn't waste your valuable time and energy on a girl that doesn't know what she wants, and wisely use it on a girl that DOES know what she wants.

mojo16 said:
Sometimes i think that she wants me there as a surrogate boyfriend until something better comes along. i dont know what to think.

WHAT DO I NEED TO DO???
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Thats a big no-no my friend. Respect yourself more than to be a temporary toy "until something better comes along."

mojo16 said:
WHAT DO I NEED TO DO???
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You should stop worrying about this one dumb b*tch and move on to other females.
 
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DonJoseCantosie

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+1 Rep BlackDog!

Def focus on other girls for the time being too. But also you could take her out, try to seal the deal and then be straightforward with her and if she can't be straightforward back, move on to someone better :).
 
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