"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ive been doing OMAD, my biggest problem is for around 20 years now, Ive picked at sugar free soda's, and coffee all day long.

Obviously this is not the proper way of fasting, I've quit coffee, but I still have to have some kind of drink other than water.

I just cant stand water, so I manage to do a day, and within 48 hours I'm back excusing myself to drink all the drinks I enjoy. It doesnt help with how rancid your breath and mouth go when fasting. Even though I carry a mouthwash with me.

How do I transition over to water for a longer period, If i could get a fortnight under my belt would be a good thing. The only thing I can think of is positive affirmations "telling myself how tasty it is" to retrain my mind....

perhaps Im overthinking, and thats causing me to relapse to my old comfort drinks?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There's a fantastic water that's lightly flavored called Hint. Not carbonated or sparkling. They have about 30 different flavors, but I love the Watermelon.


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Or add lemon or any juice to the water for flavor. Vitamin C
Agree. I get concentrated lemon juice at the Dollar type stores and pour in a very small splash to remove the plain water taste. I do tap water, Berkey filter, lemon, tiny pinch of potassium bicarbonate, tiny Epsom salt, tiny baking soda. Basically a home made mineral water. My secret to plain water is to knock it back cold like an animal before you taste it.
 
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Coffee is actually really great for you, however the cream adds up quick, I'm a super big believer in sucralose, I don't drink it all the time but I'm completely off sugar for the most part outside of carbs obviously.

Im a master of substituting things for flavor because I'm freaking obsessive about drinking water!!

#1: TEA. Tea is the answer, it's a decent replacement of coffee and the flavor of it means you can add a bit of sucrose, just a single packet and it does not carry bitterness of coffee, most teas are loaded with caffeine however so get decaf if your gonna drink a lot. My personal favorite is Green Onion Tea (Just cut up GO Stalk and throw it in, very powerful taste) also any color of Bell Pepper makes great tea and since its already opened it makes you cook with it or risk it going bad. Also any type of Onion really translates well into tea.

#2: The Water Chug... Yeah, I basically just chug down 500 ml of water every half an hour, I've heard it's not great for body but can't be as bad as being dehydrated? Lol

#3: Kamboucha: This is the most work out of the entire list, Keifer culture is incredibly annoying to maintain but it's probably one of the healthiest things you could drink, have as much as you want, if you crave that CO2 feeling in your mouth from cracking a fresh pop, this is your answer, I won't lie, I used to do this until I had 4 gallons of it blow up in my house, spent weeks cleaning it, all over the ceiling and every square inch of the room I kept it in, it's an intensive process but totally worth it.

#4: Sparkling Water... Meh, I find this harder to drink than regular water but maybe you feel differently
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I too see coffee as healthy. It is full of antioxidants. It's the sugar and creamer that are bad. I quit coffee creamer in favor of honey and started losing weight right away. Honey only gets a rep as just sugar because the junk in the grocery store is fake. You want raw, unpasteurized and preferably local honey. It contains enzymes that moderate the uptake of glucose from the sugar, and real honey is also full of antioxidants, flavonoids and other healthy substances.
 

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Im pretty sure during fasting periods, apart from the lemon advice, everything else will spike my insulin, otherwise my local Aldi do flavour water, but id hesitated from buying it?

Ive had to quit coffee, im hypersensitive to it, and it send my adrenal gland off on a mad one
 

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Ive been doing OMAD, my biggest problem is for around 20 years now, Ive picked at sugar free soda's, and coffee all day long.

Obviously this is not the proper way of fasting, I've quit coffee, but I still have to have some kind of drink other than water.

I just cant stand water, so I manage to do a day, and within 48 hours I'm back excusing myself to drink all the drinks I enjoy. It doesnt help with how rancid your breath and mouth go when fasting. Even though I carry a mouthwash with me.

How do I transition over to water for a longer period, If i could get a fortnight under my belt would be a good thing. The only thing I can think of is positive affirmations "telling myself how tasty it is" to retrain my mind....

perhaps Im overthinking, and thats causing me to relapse to my old comfort drinks?
First off,starvation diets are unhealthy and don’t work.I’ve seen people more effectively losing weight with steady state cardio and eating healthier.

Just get used to the water.Find a way,because it is paramount. You would also be less aggravated if you simply replaced your comfort drinks with blended fruit.Try pineapple,mango,watermelon,on their own or in different combinations,whatever works.Not just healthy,but great tasting too.
 

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First off,starvation diets are unhealthy and don’t work.I’ve seen people more effectively losing weight with steady state cardio and eating healthier.

Just get used to the water.Find a way,because it is paramount. You would also be less aggravated if you simply replaced your comfort drinks with blended fruit.Try pineapple,mango,watermelon,on their own or in different combinations,whatever works.Not just healthy,but great tasting too.
appreciate your points but the issue is i cant keep spiking my insulin, hence the fasting diet.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ive been doing OMAD, my biggest problem is for around 20 years now, Ive picked at sugar free soda's, and coffee all day long.

Obviously this is not the proper way of fasting, I've quit coffee, but I still have to have some kind of drink other than water.

I just cant stand water, so I manage to do a day, and within 48 hours I'm back excusing myself to drink all the drinks I enjoy. It doesnt help with how rancid your breath and mouth go when fasting. Even though I carry a mouthwash with me.

How do I transition over to water for a longer period, If i could get a fortnight under my belt would be a good thing. The only thing I can think of is positive affirmations "telling myself how tasty it is" to retrain my mind....

perhaps Im overthinking, and thats causing me to relapse to my old comfort drinks?
Create routine. How? It takes time. Like anything. Wake up. Drink water. 3L container for gym session.
 

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Create routine. How? It takes time. Like anything. Wake up. Drink water. 3L container for gym session.
this is exactly what Ive done. after 6pm x 3 times this week, Ive drank water only. I sometimes work till 2am, so I dont get up till 11.30am which generally means i'm fasting till midday the following day.
 

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Coffee has proven health benefits. It's the #1 source of antioxidants in the Western diet and it can prevent degenerative brain diseases like Alzheimer's. It helps with regularity, keeping your colon clean. Unless you're sensitive to caffeine, there's no reason to quit it. I can't really imagine what my mornings would be like without coffee.

I consider OMAD to be a fad diet, like paleo or keto. If the goal is to lose weight or remain trim, limit carbs, moderate portions, and do more cardio. During the week, my carb intake is usually just a small red potato with dinner and sometimes a slice of toast with breakfast. I fill up with cooked vegetables, olive oil and poultry. On weekends, when I lift heavy, I'll eat a lot of pasta, bread, rice etc. If I really wanted to shred, I would cut out the massive Italian feasts at BYOB restaurants but that's just not happening.
 

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this is exactly what Ive done. after 6pm x 3 times this week, Ive drank water only. I sometimes work till 2am, so I dont get up till 11.30am which generally means i'm fasting till midday the following day.
That's tricky. If entrepreneur and self employed, you can setup or better yet prepare accordingly. For example, bring more water where you work. If I got a late night, I got food, water, and electrolyte drink in preparation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Simple solution, don't drink water unless you're thirsty. A glass of cold water always feels great when you're genuinely thirsty. If you have to ask if you're thirsty, the answer is no. Besides, the only thing you can get away with when fasting is coffee; even zero calorie drinks can "break" a fast by stimulting an insulin response with artificial sweeteners.

The drinking water to stay hydrated thing is a meme. It's been going on for decades and its origins are in marketing sports drinks like Gatoraid (but also bottled water) aimed towards creating an artificial demand for drinks by making people think they need to drink a gallon of fluids per day. You do not need to drink much water especially if you have lots of salt and potassium in your diet.
 
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