What are your opinions and theories on this type of male in college? He may not be a true "DJ" that you would think of when asked what a DJ is, but could this type of male get women? What about vs a "Cool extrovert" guy?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Strong, Silent and Capable type in College
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Nowadays it's questionable if the strong silent type holds the same amount of value as in days past. There may still be a market for that type of guy but it may be limited to women who aren't as comfortable with the charismatic, outgoing types of men. In university it seems that popularity is the key and a guy with charisma and an outgoing personality tends to be more popular. So like it or not, guys may have to choose between stepping forward beyond their comfort zone or stepping back into background and hope to be noticed.
Dark Chivalry
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If he is too silent to approach women, no women is going to notice his qualities.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hitman10000
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Blind leading the blind.