"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stroke that woman's ego ... over the internet

AlexLefty

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In response to this article: (a really great article about women and their flakiness)http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=189730&page=2

After reading this article^ on the main discussion forum, I decided to do a little investigation for myself. I wanted to see just how much women’s egos get stroked nowadays over the internet. After all, I think that we can all agree the internet and texting in relation to AFCs and their new found ability to constantly compliment women and increase their egos has affected the game in a negative manner. But just how much do AFCs stroke the egos of women over the internet? I made a fake profile on a website called myyearbook and enticed people to mssg me by saying things like “Really bored! Help me out!”.

All of these messages came in within 2 to 3 days.


hi i think ur gorgeous as hell

Hey whats ip

How are you?
I think your pretty attractive and would like to get to know you

hey cutie (;

heyy cutiie;

What's up?

would you email me a pic of you and your tummy?

Hello ^_^

Whats up

Ola fermoso anxo =}

heyy your really pretty :)

Hey there, how are you doing :)?

Heyy :)

I'm a bored guy.. Still need help?;)

hey

hey:)

Hey

Hey whats up cutie? ;)

Hey there cutie, how are you doing? :p

Your flawless!

I think I lost my phone number... Can I borrow yours?

Heyy:)

Hey how are you? :)

Hey you are so pretty wanna text and get to know each other? :)

Hey :))

Hay whats up cutie what are u up to?

would u ever get to know me so i could take u on a date??

Your really gorgeous:)

Your a creeper

Hey wat up? And ya hot just ain't the right word for u. Beautiful fits u better :)

Heey! Skype? ;)

Wanna ****

Rate? Text? :)


Besides being hilarious, I think this is all something we must be aware of and something that we must all never do ourselves! If you need an example of a bad mssg/txt to send a girl, look no further than the post above.


-Lefty
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The "you're a creeper" one stuck out to me.

That one might have got a response...

But anyway, it proves ya right!
 

I'm in the Mood

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If you ever go into a webcam chat on one of those sex sites out there, you'll see that the girls don't even pay attention to half of the guys hitting on them. You have to learn that women expect guys to be attracted to them, so short intros like you were demonstrating have little to no effect on them. You're starting the game as the pursuer, without even letting her qualify you. Maybe try thinking beyond looks and connect with her before you compliment a girl. The compliment will have a lot more meaning, I guarantee it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jack Wealthy

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Seriously, this really doesn't matter. You can do nothing to fix this possible and overall minor "problem". You can fix your own problems, so do. Control the controllables and everything happens for a reason.
 
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