"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stroke that woman's ego ... over the internet

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In response to this article: (a really great article about women and their flakiness)http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=189730&page=2

After reading this article^ on the main discussion forum, I decided to do a little investigation for myself. I wanted to see just how much women’s egos get stroked nowadays over the internet. After all, I think that we can all agree the internet and texting in relation to AFCs and their new found ability to constantly compliment women and increase their egos has affected the game in a negative manner. But just how much do AFCs stroke the egos of women over the internet? I made a fake profile on a website called myyearbook and enticed people to mssg me by saying things like “Really bored! Help me out!”.

All of these messages came in within 2 to 3 days.


hi i think ur gorgeous as hell

Hey whats ip

How are you?
I think your pretty attractive and would like to get to know you

hey cutie (;

heyy cutiie;

What's up?

would you email me a pic of you and your tummy?

Hello ^_^

Whats up

Ola fermoso anxo =}

heyy your really pretty :)

Hey there, how are you doing :)?

Heyy :)

I'm a bored guy.. Still need help?;)

hey

hey:)

Hey

Hey whats up cutie? ;)

Hey there cutie, how are you doing? :p

Your flawless!

I think I lost my phone number... Can I borrow yours?

Heyy:)

Hey how are you? :)

Hey you are so pretty wanna text and get to know each other? :)

Hey :))

Hay whats up cutie what are u up to?

would u ever get to know me so i could take u on a date??

Your really gorgeous:)

Your a creeper

Hey wat up? And ya hot just ain't the right word for u. Beautiful fits u better :)

Heey! Skype? ;)

Wanna ****

Rate? Text? :)


Besides being hilarious, I think this is all something we must be aware of and something that we must all never do ourselves! If you need an example of a bad mssg/txt to send a girl, look no further than the post above.


-Lefty
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The "you're a creeper" one stuck out to me.

That one might have got a response...

But anyway, it proves ya right!
 
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I'm in the Mood

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If you ever go into a webcam chat on one of those sex sites out there, you'll see that the girls don't even pay attention to half of the guys hitting on them. You have to learn that women expect guys to be attracted to them, so short intros like you were demonstrating have little to no effect on them. You're starting the game as the pursuer, without even letting her qualify you. Maybe try thinking beyond looks and connect with her before you compliment a girl. The compliment will have a lot more meaning, I guarantee it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seriously, this really doesn't matter. You can do nothing to fix this possible and overall minor "problem". You can fix your own problems, so do. Control the controllables and everything happens for a reason.
 
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