"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Willard

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Sounds like she likes you, see what happens, you have nothing to lose, good luck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PeasantPlayer

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Strippers game is weak, I told this stripper ***** she better run better game then he *** spewing mouth was spitting.
 

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Don't even call her you already think this stripper is special, you already lost.
 

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Bang her, but it sounds like you've already developed one-itis for a stripper.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sideways- you seem like you are falling very fast and its clouding your vision. Times of hardship often draw unfamiliar people together, but it rarely lasts when life gets back to normal. Our minds dond't allow us to think clearly in times like this.

You don't last very long in the titty bar business with a "heart of gold". Girls with hearts of gold aren't tough enough to last very long and get taken advantage of. Putting on a happy face every night while trying to entertain a bunch of men sticking their fingers in your coochie becomes a very tough job day in and day out when you aren't medicated with drugs/alcohol. If this girl has been dancing for a few years and its her main job, she is a very good actor and her intentions are likely not genuine. she will come with a bunch of issues. Girls that come on fast even leave faster. Its the emotional feeling of the day that draws them near. Your story obvisouly triggered some emotions in her.


I've spent a lot of time in strip clubs over the years. Dated my fair share of strippers. Had a lot of good times with them, but the truth is most of them are damaged goods. You ask what you should do???? Just proceed slowly and take it all like you just don't care. You aren't the first guy this girl has connected to and put her number in some dudes phone.

If you really want to date this girl, then play your cards close. When you show up at the club next, interact with the other girls like this girl was nothing different. Let her work for your approval. Let it be known that you are just there to blow off some steam and enjoy life. Dont come across as the rest of the horndogs that get mad because they don't get any play after they've blown $100 on lap dances. I never spent more than $10-15 and seduced many of them. After about 3-4 visits, ask her to meet you some where.
 

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_sideways_ said:
Well she gave me her real name and spoke like a real girl who was concerned about my problems...plus she works out so i dont dislike her.
how do you know it was her real name?

have you ever heard of lorenzo von matterhorn? from the show how I met your mother?

or how about person of interest where every character is always using a fake name at all times.

_sideways_ said:
How to proceed....

I sat with her for a long time. I told her about my dads health problems and how its affecting my mom. She grabs my phone...puts her info in it and tells me to call her so we can talk more. Shes super fine....

Texted her today saying thanks for letting me vent.

So how to proceed? What would you do. I mean she handed her info to me. Yay
if she lets you hang out with her in a way that doesn't bring profit to her, then she actually likes you.

if you only hang out with her at your expense and her gain, you're obviously being used
 

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You just need to get her over to your crib and do that night thang.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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_sideways_

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Its not like im in love. Im tired of fat chicks so i really want a fit chick
 

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Gray The Prince said:
The fact that the OP has high rep power and is making threads like these show how far SoSuave has fallen in recent years.
Is it possible he gained rep just to troll us? :eek:
 
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