"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to proceed....

I sat with her for a long time. I told her about my dads health problems and how its affecting my mom. She grabs my phone...puts her info in it and tells me to call her so we can talk more. Shes super fine....

Texted her today saying thanks for letting me vent.

So how to proceed? What would you do. I mean she handed her info to me. Yay
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I thought you hated strippers and prostitutes.

She will find some way to get money out of you.
 
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What the hell possessed you to talk to a random stripper about personal issues?
That's what a shrink is for.

Invite her out for a drink, take it from there.
 
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Well she gave me her real name and spoke like a real girl who was concerned about my problems...plus she works out so i dont dislike her.
 
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Rival said:
What the hell possessed you to talk to a random stripper about personal issues?
That's what a shrink is for.

Invite her out for a drink, take it from there.
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She asked me why i was there cuz it was early. I told her i needed to get away from it all so thats why we spoke about it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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_sideways_ said:
How to proceed....

I sat with her for a long time. I told her about my dads health problems and how its affecting my mom. She grabs my phone...puts her info in it and tells me to call her so we can talk more. Shes super fine....

Texted her today saying thanks for letting me vent.

So how to proceed? What would you do. I mean she handed her info to me. Yay
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She wants you to become a regular. Sounds like you are a little naive...
 
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That thought did cross my mind. But i dont have money to give so if thats what shes after then boohoo. But i also think im sexy enough for her to like me. So...
 
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She must have liked you for one reason or another. Even strippers and prostitutes need relationships away from work. She is hardly going to be like this with every dude, probably a right b!tch with other dudes.
 
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_sideways_ said:
But i dont have money to give so if thats what shes after then boohoo.
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Tell her that and see if she still wants to "talk".
 
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Come on dude...every one wants money. But she can get a dinner while she makes me feel better lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I texted her that i wanted to see her out wearing a cap. Lol. She said in due time shes busy today...
 
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_sideways_ said:
Well she gave me her real name and spoke like a real girl who was concerned about my problems...
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Thats their job, build you up pretend to care and take your money. In my experience it seems a lot of men are there for emotional support which I guess makes sense in a way, just always pisses me off when I have to wait to bury my face in her tîts because some guy thinks hes running game on a stripper. I'm not saying it couldnt turn out well, but tread very carefully my friend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Were you by any chance throwing dollar bills at her while talking to her?
 
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Some dudes just never learn.
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Lust is the most blinding fvcking thing on earth. Can you really blame 'em?
 
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jurry said:
just always pisses me off when I have to wait to bury my face in her tîts because some guy thinks hes running game on a stripper. I'm not saying it couldnt turn out well, but tread very carefully my friend.
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No one runs game on strippers/escorts, they run game on dudes lol. DJ's are best to just stay away from them altogether, they're not into you for your looks, ripped body, or sense of style, all the see is $$$.
 
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Were you by any chance throwing dollar bills at her while talking to her?
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No. She saunteted over and i brought up my scenario by telling her im not looking for dances. Just wanted to escape for a while.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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