stripper invited me out to see her ... anyone who has experience GET IN HERE

[muscleman]

she's offering all these discounts and what not for nye. never landed a stripper, never been to a strip club, honestly I'm not sure I even want to go. dunno if that's the way those girls are though.

RT I know you landed some strippers back in the day, care to comment? how'd you do it?

is this interest or her just tryin to get money?

 

[oakraiderz2]

I would rather take a girl to a movie and pay 7.50 then go watch a ho strip and give her free money. I f*cked this chick that was a stripper. Later she told me i should come watch her work cause shes good at what she does. Hang out with her first, im sure you could get some sex. Dont go watch her slut it out.

 

[potato]

You can’t always go by what you think the stereotypical stripper is like. I’ve dated a few women who were or had been strippers – one of whom went out of her way to take me around, to meet a lot of other strippers, and to see first hand what does and doesn’t happen in strip clubs.

Some strippers are the stereotypical ditzy hos but most aren’t. Many aren’t any more slvtty than any other women. For most it is just an easy way to make money. It is just a show, an act.

I’m just saying judge the girl based on her merits and not on the general perception of strippers in general.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

They want your money most of the time. Or you can PIMP her! Get to know her a little bit and create attraction. Tell your friends you're "dating" a stripper and they will pay you for her lap dances and what not. Get that money playa! She works for you and helps you out. Just fvck her a few times and have a QUALITY girl as your main b!tch. Keep the stripper on the side, make ur money, keep her interested, invest in another girl who is better and you're gold.

 

[trojanman88]

An old man once told me "once your girl sees you as a source for money, she will always see you ass a source for money."

 

[ready123]

just wanted to point out to the dude above me that a lot of strippers make bank

where else can you work for only a few hours a day, 20 bucks/5 mins, 2 bills for 30 min private dances and you don't even need a high school diploma

inside the club they eye your wallet because they're working. doesn't mean they're gold-diggers outside the club

 

[trojanman88]

I think it flat out destroys your game if you pay them. I think it DLV, and makes your value lower than hers. Most girls like to seperate thier job from thier regular life. And half of the time the girls are terrified of the men viewing them, they think that there is atleast one killer out there (which is normally true, killers stalkers and social misfits are always in the strip clubs). So when you approach after you pay the girl, or after her show its kinda like :nervous: for her she's thinking am I getting a another stalker today. And plus if you don't think girls are terrified of the jons viewing why do you think they always ask the bouncers to walk them out to thier cars. Also usually girls are emberrased of being a stripper, so in their real life they don't want people to know that they stripped so they don't associate with the people at the clubs. Plus they think that you, think that they act like a stripper in real life so they don't want you around then either. SO basically heres the cons to the situation of picking up a stripper

cons:
1.they think you think they are a slut, so when your around outside thier job all of the slutty emotion comes up.
2. if you pay them they see you as someone they can have you whenever they want (and all the playing hard to get is out the door), or they see you as a money souce for the rest of your life cuz they feel like they can minipulate money from you.
3. THey find you creepy and lonely
4. your not even aloud to touch them lol

But here are the ways to turn that around is:

Going with a girl (it shows you have options and preselection)
Connecting with her while she is up there (since you know her) winking your eye and smiling to send her comfort. (let her know you are comfortable around naked women, and that you are not affected by where you are and that she is still just a girl thats like your younger friend)
Not giving her your full attention, talk to the girl that you brought to create jealousy.
After her dance when she goes back into the backroom to get dressed move out to the bar and talk with your friend the girl will almost certainly come up to you from behind and say "hi" thats when you give her a big "HELLO" then hug her and kiss her on the cheek (show her alot of energy and excitement) then tell her your about to go hit the town in a minute, and that she was amazing. up there. Then invite to a party that you are throwing. And she is in the palm of your hands bro

 

[ready123]

^--- have you actually PU'd a stripper before?

 

[trojanman88]

And plus not paying is much more powerful than you think it is. You can imagine how it feels up there when she doesn't get your money. Like her job is to seek your approval and the money comes if you approve of her, so by not giving her your money its like you don't approve and she kinda wonders why? And if your with a girl it answers that question... (you have options). So your not her client that she's planning on milking for every single you have, your an alpha guy thats just there to have a good time. p.s. thats the start that you need when it comes to women.

And yes to guy above me

 

[muscleman]

Thanks for the feedback fellas. I didn't this thread to discuss "quality", which is a dubious term at best. I just merely wanted some opinions about the particular situation and whether it was really interest or just an invitation to get my money.

Doesn't really matter at this point because I politely declined but told her if she wanted to hang out sometime when she wasn't working I'd be up for it. I honestly don't care if she gets back to me or not, this was just another in a line of options.

 

[potato]

cons:
1.they think you think they are a slut, so when your around outside thier job all of the slutty emotion comes up.
2. if you pay them they see you as someone they can have you whenever they want (and all the playing hard to get is out the door), or they see you as a money souce for the rest of your life cuz they feel like they can minipulate money from you.
3. THey find you creepy and lonely
4. your not even aloud to touch them lol

Are you sure that you know what you’re talking about?

1. I’ve dated a few strippers and the issue of her being a slut never came up except in joking. None of them were really sluts, I never thought of them as sluts, and they never thought that I thought of them as sluts.
2. If you are dating a stripper she doesn’t see you as a source of income any more than any other woman would. She certainly wouldn’t think that she could have you whenever she wanted. If you were like that she probably would have never hooked up with you in the first place.
3. If they want to date you, they aren’t thinking of you as creepy or lonely.
4. I’ve always been able to touch the girls. The prohibition against touching only applies when they are performing.

 

[SayWord?]

sounds like a set up

make sure you meet at a public place with close friends looking around

 

[trojanman88]

Are you sure that you know what you’re talking about?

1. I’ve dated a few strippers and the issue of her being a slut never came up except in joking. None of them were really sluts, I never thought of them as sluts, and they never thought that I thought of them as sluts.
2. If you are dating a stripper she doesn’t see you as a source of income any more than any other woman would. She certainly wouldn’t think that she could have you whenever she wanted. If you were like that she probably would have never hooked up with you in the first place.
3. If they want to date you, they aren’t thinking of you as creepy or lonely.
4. I’ve always been able to touch the girls. The prohibition against touching only applies when they are performing.

Naw you got me wrong cuz I made the mistake of going in and out of specifically talking to the op and generally guys trying to pick up strippers.

 

[trojanman88]

maybe your right...because iv'e picked up one stripper before so maybe youve dated more and have lots more experience . I was talking specifically using my one pick up...so yeah

 

[muscleman]

Well thanks for the feedback. Apparently after I sent her that polite email she was still interested, cause she emailed me earlier today saying she "wasn't working tonight". Long story short, after about 20 sh!t tests, she agreed to a movie date. I head out in 30.

LOL

 

[muscleman]

I had sex with her. Details here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134945&page=2 (SCROLL DOWN TO #14)

Thanks for the tips!

 

[muscleman]

Indeed. It was my top game. She invited me out to nye with her for some crazy fun so I'll be seeing her again in a couple days.

 

[The Deacon]

I’m just saying judge the girl based on her merits and not on the general perception of strippers in general.

I'm sorry, did potato actually say something constructive?

Whoa guys, if potato actually said something helpful and not outrageously arrogant, what's next? Flying pigs?