"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Strip Clubs?

mahon83050

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I go, but usually only my once a year.

Do you think some strippers get turned on giving an attractive guy a lapdance and might actually like a guy, or do you think it is 100% all faked and a show.

I feel it is faked and they only want your money, but I want some other opinions, just curious.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJDoomage

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I had a relationship with stripper, and as part of baking bath and all before the show they have a few. So throughout the night she was drunk.
 

ExploringOne

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99% of the time it's all 100% fake.

I've had this discussion with a couple of strippers a few years back...

Yes they do once in a while enjoy giving a lapdance to a good looking guy. Most of the time though, it's all for show.

One of the girls took a hit of E before she started the night. She enjoyed everything. Sometimes the girls do drink quite a bit.

The bottom line is, the strippers are there for the money.
 

ryannath

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WTF is baking bath? Meth maybe...idk what bath is. And, I saw on a tv show where strippers say they see guys as a pay check 100% and how they manipulate them to giving the money.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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