"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I go, but usually only my once a year.

Do you think some strippers get turned on giving an attractive guy a lapdance and might actually like a guy, or do you think it is 100% all faked and a show.

I feel it is faked and they only want your money, but I want some other opinions, just curious.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I had a relationship with stripper, and as part of baking bath and all before the show they have a few. So throughout the night she was drunk.
 
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99% of the time it's all 100% fake.

I've had this discussion with a couple of strippers a few years back...

Yes they do once in a while enjoy giving a lapdance to a good looking guy. Most of the time though, it's all for show.

One of the girls took a hit of E before she started the night. She enjoyed everything. Sometimes the girls do drink quite a bit.

The bottom line is, the strippers are there for the money.
 
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WTF is baking bath? Meth maybe...idk what bath is. And, I saw on a tv show where strippers say they see guys as a pay check 100% and how they manipulate them to giving the money.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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