"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Well I'm going to a strip club tonight. I thought about rather I wanted to go or not. And then everyone talked me into going for sure. I have no f*cking clue on what to expect. Anyone ever been? I'll post when I get back on what happens.....

No smart a$$ answers like...."girls striping." because I know that would be the first thing I would say if someone made a post like this. :p Plus I needed to waste some post so I can get even closer to my 300th!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by NEWBIE101
Never been to one.

Be sure to tip well though, it will pay off by the end of the night.
when u have an empty wallet
 

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Haha, JSH meant that you will have an empty wallet by the end of the night.

What happens if you tip well and it pays off for what?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Last night was awsome has hell. I've never had so much d*mn fun in all my life.

I got 2 lap dances. First one sucked, chick didn't even get on my lap. Second one was really good. Only two chicks were ugly well not ugly but not higher than a 6. There was a total of about 17 girls all atleast 8's in my book. I guess it just depends on the strip club.

One things for sure everyone needs to go atleast once. I am also now hooked on the song "Serenity." by godsmack for reasons I will not say :p
 

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Originally posted by NRM
Haha, JSH meant that you will have an empty wallet by the end of the night.

What happens if you tip well and it pays off for what?
I know what he meant. ;) I was just saying that you should come to the strip club with money for tips and stuff and realize that you will be spending some of it.

It pays off in that you'll get some crazy ass lap dances and have a great time.

There was an article in Men's Health a month or so ago about proper strip club etiquitte.
 

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Originally posted by JBizzle
Last night was awsome has hell. I've never had so much d*mn fun in all my life.

I got 2 lap dances. First one sucked, chick didn't even get on my lap. Second one was really good. Only two chicks were ugly well not ugly but not higher than a 6. There was a total of about 17 girls all atleast 8's in my book. I guess it just depends on the strip club.

One things for sure everyone needs to go atleast once. I am also now hooked on the song "Serenity." by godsmack for reasons I will not say :p
Good to hear that you enjoyed yourself.
 

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Originally posted by NEWBIE101
There was an article in Men's Health a month or so ago about proper strip club etiquitte.
haha. Proper Strip Club etiquitte.
The strip clubs around here are okay. The best ones that I have been to are in TX. Yeeeeeeeeeeeah!
 
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