Strip club rejection...

[amnbyrd]

Me and a friend ended up going to this strip club tonight. Strip clubs arent my thing-i pretty much sat there looking bored. Well this hb8-9 was sitting behind me with 2 friends. She pulled out a cigarette and tapped me on my arm and asked if i had a lighter. i didnt though i had some matches on my table so i lit it for her. she grabbed my hand to light her cig. But thats where i pussied out. i didnt take it anywhere.
Anyways i finally found my balls towards the end of the night and i sat beside her and introduced myself. She told me her name and we shook hands. I couldnt hear a thing she said though. that and she looked tired/worn out and was texting on her phone. I was trying to talk to her but she couldnt hear me at all. She pretty much just sat there not showing interest. Dammit
So what do you guys think happened? Is it most likely i just caught her at a bad time- i mean eariler she seemed to be having a good time though when i got to her she looked like she was really tired.
Though things didnt go as planned im just glad i finally made my move. I guess the rejection wasnt as bad as i thought itd be-i know id feel worst if i hadnt made my move at all.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

She saw you weren't a good candidate to buy her services, so she moved on to a better prospect. Nothing personal; remember, it is a business for them. They are not there to meet guys; they are there to milk guys.

 

[amnbyrd]

WHat do you mean? She wasnt a stripper-just a regular girl who was there with 2 of her girlfriends.

 

[SayWord?]

you shouldve been trying watch the hangtime of the monkey

 

[Obsidian]

She was possibly a lesbian, and even if she wasn't, you had very little chance of doing anything with her because conversations are impossible in those ridiculous environments. I don't know why in the hell places feel the need to blast their music so loud these days.

i was at a bar/club saturday night with some friends (male and two females), but I didn't even bother trying to talk to any of the girls there because I knew it would be next to impossible to communicate

 

[amnbyrd]

So should I take it as a rejection?

 

[SayWord?]

^
Kim

 

[Obsidian]

So should I take it as a rejection?

umm, you obviously have the heart of a chump. You should re-read the DJ Bible immediately.

rejection is a good thing. yes, take it as a rejection

I was tutoring these three black kids at a ghetto middle school, and they always liked to get off track and talk about girls and stuff. One of the kids (age 14 i think) was an amazingly advanced player for his age. Well, I guess that's probably expected in ghetto areas. Anyway, he was always trying to inquire about my level of experience with ladies, and when I implied to him that I was not as much of a geeky n00b as he assumed, he acted surprised. He asked, "Oh yeah, how many times have you been rejected?"

You had to be there to understand his meaning, but didn't ask the question as an insult. He was inquiring about how many rejections I'd had because any true ladies' man will have a ton of rejections, and he wanted to know how many attempts I'd made. Not enough, probably.

 

[trojanman88]

LOL you lost the sit when you waited. YOU can't wait or it seems planned and her gaurd goes up. SO you have to force yourself to game rather you feel like it or not as soon as you meet up...

 

[PrinceBeavis]

Maybe she was, as you said she looked, really tired.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

who gives a ****, your a puissy and should have atleast approached somone goddamit

So....who did you approach this evening?

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Owned!!!!!!

 

[nando]

calm down guys, help the guy

 

[LostAndConfused]

^
Kim

I was just listening to Eminem so I LOLed. :crackup:

 

[SayWord?]

I was just listening to Eminem so I LOLed. :crackup:

KIM

keep it moving

 

[Obsidian]

I disagree with the other guys. I don't think initial hesitation to approach in an uncomfortable environment is that big of a turn-off. The important thing is that you eventually did the courageous thing and tried to talk to her. The odds weren't in your favor in such an awkward setting so you did not succeed.

big deal. I'd say a more important failure is your FAILURE to read the DJ Bible.

I guess the rejection wasnt as bad as i thought itd be-i know id feel worst if i hadnt made my move at all.

Glad that you're learning at least a little bit. Under the natural order of things, a man approaches a woman. If you were a door-to-door salesman or a telemarketer, would you get embarrassed by the fact that lots of potential "customers" wouldn't buy any of your goods? I'd imagine that's the case for most of them, and it's the case for most successful men, too. Read the damn Bible.

calm down guys, help the guy

Bah, Pook is the only one who can help this guy

 

[amnbyrd]

Wow...
Thats all I can say after reading these responses.
WHats the fvcking point of this site if ppl cant help one another out?? I seriously think some of you guys get off on making ppl feel like sh!t.
Well thanks, now I know not to bother with this site as its of no help at all, especially when theres nothing but azzholes on here bashing everyone. If you've got time to post some stupid, irrelavant comment that obviously has no intention to help then you can't be doing to well yourself with girls seeing how you even have the time to be wasting posting stupid comments on here. Maybe this is why all the good ppl that used to frequent the board have disappeared.
-Peace

 

[nismo-4]

WHat do you mean? She wasnt a stripper-just a regular girl who was there with 2 of her girlfriends.

And one of those girlfriends is you! You shook her hand and failed to take it further!

Be a man from the get-go! Have your balls from the get-go!

 

[Outsider]

Opportunity comes once in a lifetime, you have to make a decision before to capitalize on situations like that.

 

[Obsidian]

Maybe this is why all the good ppl that used to frequent the board have disappeared.

no, the good people disappeared because they got tired of repeating themselves to n00bs like you who were too lazy to read the DJ Bible