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Stringing me along?

RangerMIke

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We eat pita inn. She offers to pay and I let her. I also order a hefty amount of food and to be honest kind of ate like a slob. But she laughed at it. I was kind of in a care free mode and furthermore there was a good amount of kino however not as much as I would like.

I don't care what the circumstances where or how she reacted, women do no like sloppy guys. Keep your manners.

So we go to the same spot we had previously smoked at it. There wasn't much kino in the car. I wasnt really looking but I went to touch her leg like I usually do and her purse was there. I knock her purse over and she puts it back.

LOL!!! That was no accident... women like to put up little barriers. The purse is something they use much.

We smoke some more weed and she's talking about how she wants to go to bed soon.

This is when you should have said: "Bed!!! you're being a bit forward aren't you... You're going to have to woo me some more, I'm NOT that easy, then smile."

So I put down the piece we were smoking out of and I touch her arm cuz I cant touch her leg. And she immediately suggests "should we go home now".

You should have said: "There you go again asking me back to your place... trying to take advantage of me, you must think I'm really easy."

I stopped touching her completely and completely shift to the other side of my seat. She immediately starts acting all nervous and mentions how it's cold and that she's tired and all these other excuses.

You should have said: "Then slide over here and I'll keep you warm."


All I have to say is that "it was a fun time."

That's BS and she knows it, women always know what you are thinking. You didn't have a fun time you were too wrapped up in tryign to make something happen... and failing to do so.

She then storms out of the car, doesn't hug me (she's done that before) and mentions how we should see American Sniper next weekend, like she had mentioned she wanted to go that Party that happened at the beginning of winter break. She abruptly leaves.

Okay... she's a bit ticked off at you that you aren't working to make something happen. It's a man's responsibility to make sex happen. And you are not acting like a man. I think she likes you, but until you step up your game and bang this girl you are going to lose her.

So overall I thought the "date" went well. We shared the same drinks, hookah piece, there was kino. She had been sending me smiley faces when we text on her own initiative.

Not sure what the 'smiley' faces means since I don't get into the texting BS, but it sounds like she is comfortable with you. This is good, because she has to be comfortable if you plan to move things forward.

HOWEVER, it had a terrible ending. Why the **** did I NOT get a kiss from her.

Because you didn't go for it. You are waiting for this woman to make the move YOU have to get things started. Just fvcking kiss her.

Why did she storm out of the car and not say goodbye with a hug?

Because you didn't move things forward.

She knows very much so as to what I want.

YES, FINALLY reality creeps in, she knows what you want yet you are failing to go for it. You are being in-congruent, women hate this fvcking sh!t.

My take on this is that actions speak louder then words and I should NC her for the time being until she reaches out to me.... Bizarre

NC??? Why, she has already told you she's giving you another shot. The movie date sucks, you should try and do something else, but you definately need to step up you game. She hasn't disrespected you or blown you off.

Not trying to be disrespectful, only offer advice that has worked for me for 30 years. You must excellerate on this girl, I think she wants you to but she is young, you are the man you have to lead the way, she will NOT do it for you. You need to adopt the attitude that you are going to get her or burn the bridge. Good luck.
 

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Your frame is literally destroyed in fact she's trying to use you. No, she IS using you. You have almost no chance with this girl unless you go ghost.

The reason why she wanted you to go to the party: To drive her home and or for her to at least know ONE person there that she isn't trying to grind on. And you ended up driving her home anyway so she got what she wanted.

You smoked her out twice. That's at least four grams depending on how much you both smoke. You spent around $45-60+, not including gas AND the hookah, just on her alone. Her paying for dinner was like, what? $20 maybe $30? Then she storms out without saying a simple thank you or a good night and then tells you that you should spend more money on her to see a movie?

She clearly knows how to make guys, like you, jealous in order for her to get what she wants whether she consciously thinks about it or not.

Get rid of her dude, she's a user. Nismo-4 nailed this one.
 

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I'm sorry to say man but it looks like you acted like a typical nice guy. Carrying her stuff etc. And giving her a ride home... You could just rather ask her out without doing all those nice guy things. You see, somebody that buys her food, drinks, carries her stuff, drives her home safely, orbits around and gives her the attention when she needed some. Be "there" for her. She likes the benefits so of course she is stringing you along.

She can already get whatever she wants from you. She doesn't have a reason to date you. I think that you need to stand up for yourself and tell her what you want directly. And if she doesn't want to go along with it, say that you are not interested in just friendship. And tell her to call you if she changes her mind. And walk away completely. Don't call her or text her, do nothing. And just leave it at that. If she comes, she comes. If she doesn't, move on. And never be a NICE GUY again.
 

.Bing.

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dagreatgrizz23 said:
Is this woman just a waste of my time?
Nearly a month has gone and you got nothing out of her. Do you really have to ask that question? Have you even tried to date other women? Do that instead of her.
 

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This is why you always next low interest or mixed signal girls. They will suck you into their games, bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.

Delete all her contact information and move on.
 
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