"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Striking gold with random reach outs

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Just randomly texted a former plate that left on good terms today due to seeing something that reminded me of her and she was super happy to hear from me and said she was just thinking about me last week. Hadn't talked with her since the end of July.

A couple more texts back and forth and I invited her to have dinner and some wine and catch up...she said we can skip dinner but wine sounded good....asked when she was free and she said tonight so she will be here in about 30 minutes...

Looks like I am going to be busy for a few hours...we had phenomenal chemistry in the bedroom.

With the Rona and the Holidays coming up it might be a good idea to reach out to some former plates and engage them...this is the time of year people crave adult interaction and you can definitely create some easy banging opportunities for yourself if you play it right...especially with the lack of opportunities some are having or them hunkering down.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just randomly texted a former plate that left on good terms today due to seeing something that reminded me of her and she was super happy to hear from me and said she was just thinking about me last week. Hadn't talked with her since the end of July.

A couple more texts back and forth and I invited her to have dinner and some wine and catch up...she said we can skip dinner but wine sounded good....asked when she was free and she said tonight so she will be here in about 30 minutes...

Looks like I am going to be busy for a few hours...we had phenomenal chemistry in the bedroom.

With the Rona and the Holidays coming up it might be a good idea to reach out to some former plates and engage them...this is the time of year people crave adult interaction and you can definitely create some easy banging opportunities for yourself if you play it right...especially with the lack of opportunities some are having or them hunkering down.

Game mate, Good stuff.

I can be critical of Rollo at times but I agree with him on leaving trash at the curb and running. Easier to start new than fix what is broken.

My philosophy has always been #nextset. Power to you and happy holidays regardless.
 

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With the Rona and the Holidays coming up it might be a good idea to reach out to some former plates and engage them...this is the time of year people crave adult interaction and you can definitely create some easy banging opportunities for yourself if you play it right...especially with the lack of opportunities some are having or them hunkering down.
The best strategy in the COVID era is to reach out to former plates. I've gotten bangs from that during the COVID era.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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More often then not it doesn't workout this way but good on OP.
The very act of reaching out can look needy.
Honestly I am past the point of worrying what it looks like anymore because here is the thing.

If I reach out and she declines then it was already a no anyway so it's not like I lost anything to begin with. The only possible outcome is that either I get an easy bang like last night or I get exactly what I already had with the woman.

On a side note it was a little funny she gave me a sh!t test before things got heated and I responded a lot better than the last time a woman did it...

We had been talking for a while and she came over and kind of laid sideways on my lap and was looking at me and she said "You know I could always just leave" when I was starting to ramp up the kino and I could see she was starting to get hot and bothered...and I said "You could. Or you could just stay and finish your glass of wine." With a smirk...and I added "But you didn't drive all this way just leave..." And then I kissed her and it was like there almost was an explosion inside her and she said "I want you to show me what I have been missing and remind me..." And then she said she remembered how amazing things were in the bedroom between us in her mind as a fact but didn't remember how it felt as a feeling...

I found that really interesting. I also made sure she remembered how it felt. hahaha
 

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More often then not it doesn't workout this way but good on OP.
The very act of reaching out can look needy.
No doubt but the best of us can see the blue pill FB IG or whatever and desire a glimpse. It's why I think most men are purple pill or they know red pill but are like Rollo playing house to epiphany phase despite writing the damn smv chart. I think Rollo is correct here about leaving trash at the curb. A throater or pound town doesn't negate the testosterone that could be used to build something worthwhile like a business or acquiring top form smv 18-23. The vast majority of women disgust me. I concur with RSD Tyler on hate ****ing.
 

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Honestly I am past the point of worrying what it looks like anymore because here is the thing.

If I reach out and she declines then it was already a no anyway so it's not like I lost anything to begin with. The only possible outcome is that either I get an easy bang like last night or I get exactly what I already had with the woman.

On a side note it was a little funny she gave me a sh!t test before things got heated and I responded a lot better than the last time a woman did it...

We had been talking for a while and she came over and kind of laid sideways on my lap and was looking at me and she said "You know I could always just leave" when I was starting to ramp up the kino and I could see she was starting to get hot and bothered...and I said "You could. Or you could just stay and finish your glass of wine." With a smirk...and I added "But you didn't drive all this way just leave..." And then I kissed her and it was like there almost was an explosion inside her and she said "I want you to show me what I have been missing and remind me..." And then she said she remembered how amazing things were in the bedroom between us in her mind as a fact but didn't remember how it felt as a feeling...

I found that really interesting. I also made sure she remembered how it felt. hahaha
Similar to approach. Pull or next.

It's the holiday season. My heart is as cold as ice. I am icy as ****kk. Still, I see what you do be it irl or online.

The best of us is isn't above backsliding. It's why the golden standard is n/c (no contact). Again fellas do fwb with a ex or some weak move. As long as you are in control.

I know that it's pandemic and majority of the lads are on epic dryspells. I rather meet new. I disregard fast. I don't care how hot baeeeee is. Comply or bye. I am even spiteful about Ig close instead of a #. Even the slightest bit of lack of compliance makes my D soft there's far hotter on the come up. Hotter girls are turning 18 everyday.

Happy holidays playboy.
 
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